i just broke up with my boyfriend of a year and now i find myself falling in love again with a better person.. Will it last?
2007-03-03 18:01:07 · 10 answers · asked by ar14m30nly 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Marriage & Divorce
a former ex from highschool , thats i later met up with and found myself attracted to him and much more mature. I feel like he could be my best friend !
2007-03-03 18:18:24 · update #1
No one can answer this.
2007-03-03 18:05:23 · answer #1 · answered by crazywoman88 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
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2016-05-05 22:21:34 · answer #2 · answered by ? 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
It depends on how soon this new relationship started after the breakup with the last one. Make sure that you are not just having feelings due to this new bf keeping you from being alone. Many men and women feel they cannot survive life without someone(anyone)to share it with. Every person that enters their life to fill that void makes them feel as though they are instantly in love. Take your time to really get to know this person. One of the worst mistakes is to share intimacy right away thinking that will bond the two of you together. If he loves and respects you he will let you set the pace of the relationship. If he only has an interest in how fast he can get your jeans off, he will move on in a very short amount of time. Make him your closest and dearest friend first and a lover second and it can last a lifetime.
2007-03-03 18:24:46 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Well, you need to first figure out what love really means to you. Its unlikely that you have "fell in love" again. You may just be feeling lust or be in love with the fact that someone is giving you this specialized attention.
best thing to do is be friends with this new person and take it very slowly. If you think he is a better person, then you need to make sure he's the "right person". The only way to do that is to take time to get to know him.
So take it slow. Its worth it in the long run. It won't last if you don't.
2007-03-03 18:05:54 · answer #4 · answered by Deu 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
It's not love, trust me. You really do need time by yourself after breaking up with someone you've been with for so long. I know you probably won't listen to this advice, but I have just ended a relationship I thought was "it". Thing is, I started seeing this guy after I broke up with someone who I thought was the love of my life. This new guy said and did all of the things I wished the ex did. He was making me feel good again. It lasted for 5 months, but I knew in my heart that we were not right for each other, even in the beginning. Just do yourself a favor and be honest with yourself.
2007-03-03 18:20:05 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Infatuation or LOVE?
No way with a better person then your last man? of all the luck.
Aren't you the NEEDY one? hahaha! that didn't take any time. My guess is your not really good at being ALONE.
Ever wonder why?
2007-03-03 18:26:54 · answer #6 · answered by SecretFriend 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
No it will fail. You need to take some time to get to know you again. Otherwise your baggage will creep into your new relationship, and believe me girl you got baggage!
2007-03-03 18:20:03 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Rebound relationships are often formed in haste however
not always and they do not always fail...
2007-03-03 18:06:29 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
You never know until you give it a try. n
2007-03-03 18:09:20 · answer #9 · answered by Nikki 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
not if you r still in love w/ your boyfriend
2007-03-03 18:05:33 · answer #10 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋