i want to know if this guy is doing this to me because he has some kinda mental disorder if u know let me know thansk:) :
Theres this guy i have ran into off and on since our love affair 4 years ago. He always comes back up saying he loves me and misses me. then he does some tough form of rejection so i get all obsessed wit him again, then disappears. I finally get over him and bam, hes back. Its begining to feel like h cannot go on unless im obsessed wit him? whats going on here?
2007-03-03 17:30:43 · 8 answers · asked by Anonymous in Social Science ➔ Psychology
He's playing you a bit like a yo-yo. It's as if he enjoys knowing that he "could" have you - but he isn't really interested in having a relationship with you at all. You should smarten up and kick him to the curb and never look back. Don't talk to him, don't answer his calls, don't read his letters. Why waste anymore time? Move on and find somebody who actually WANTS to be with you. :-)
2007-03-03 17:50:13 · answer #1 · answered by Butterscotch 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
HE'S PLAYING GAMES WITH YOU!! HE KNOWS YOU'LL ALWAYS THERE, DROP THIS GUY AND GO ON WITH YOUR LIFE,
IF HE MISSED YOU HE WOULD BE THERE! IF YOU WERE REALLY OVER HIM YOU WOULDN'T TAKE HIM BACK, I'VE BEEN THERE,
LET HIM GO HE IS JUST TELLING YOU THINGS THAT YOU WANT TO HEAR
GOOD LUCKAND I'LL SAY A PRAYER FOR YOU, I KNOW IT WILL BE HARD, GO TO THE DR AND GET YOU SOME ANTIDEPRESSANTS THEY ARE NOT HABIT FORMING AND THEY WILL HELP DON'T LET THIS GUY BRING YOU DOWN
2007-03-04 01:46:53 · answer #2 · answered by DIANA JEFF GORDON FAN 4 · 1⤊ 0⤋
I think what you should be asking is if you have some kind of problem. If someone treats you like a yo-yo, and you let them do it, you need to look at why that happens.
2007-03-04 01:50:08 · answer #3 · answered by shermynewstart 7 · 1⤊ 0⤋
sounds like this person is not good for you at all and is just playing you.
2007-03-04 01:39:07 · answer #4 · answered by j_oli07 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
It's called "controlling" you. Get rid of him for good.
2007-03-04 01:38:11 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
Well I guess it is no different with either heterosexual or homosexual players, He is playing "HEAD GAMES"!!!
2007-03-04 01:56:32 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
he's playing you like a fiddle.say it with me..."bootycall"
2007-03-04 01:39:09 · answer #7 · answered by Robert R 1 · 1⤊ 0⤋
maybe, he is just testing you how deep is your love for him.
2007-03-04 01:37:02 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 3⤋