ok so im 15 and i had sex about a week ago and my areolas darkend all of a suddon.and im not supposed to start my period until the 18th and its the 3rd..but i dont have any other symptoms..except for feeling sick this moring..but iv always had bad morning sickness anyway ..and then i had a headache..but i think it was because i cried that day...OMG! help me idk wat to think!
2007-03-03 17:25:07 · 21 answers · asked by andrea s 1 in Pregnancy & Parenting ➔ Adolescent
ok so im 15 and i had sex about a week ago and we used a condom but he put it on wrong and then turned it around..and i am on birth control..but i wasnt taking it that week..and my areolas darkend all of a suddon.and im not supposed to start my period until the 18th and its the 3rd..but i dont have any other symptoms..except for feeling sick this moring..but iv always had bad morning sickness..like i just have always felt sick..in the morning..and then i had a headache..but i think it was because i cried that day...OMG! help me idk wat to think!
2007-03-04 11:57:52 · update #1
You've been a bit irresponsible, haven't you? You could be pregnant, but the symptoms you are describing don't start as early as this, certainly not morning sickness - I think you are panicking and looking for symptoms. What you need to do is get yourself off to the doctor and explore your options - if you DO happen to be pregnant and you don't want to have the baby, you need to sort it out immediately. And if you're not pregnant, look on this as a valuable lesson and never have sex without contraception again. If you aren't mature enough to think about the consequences, you're not mature enough for sex.
2007-03-03 17:33:49 · answer #1 · answered by f0xymoron 6 · 4⤊ 0⤋
Calm down. That's the best thing to do is calm down.
Firstly, because of what happened to you, your mind will be looking for reasons to justify that you are pregnant even if you're not. It's basic psychology. Morning sickness usually takes a while to take effect, weeks even. Definately not until the zygote is implanted into the uterus. That takes about a week or so actually. Just calm down. If you have access to a "Morning After"-type contraceptive, get it! If you are comfortable: Talk to someone in confidence. Someone you can absolutely trust, a friend or a counselor at your school. You should have a good long talk with someone.
But don't jump to conclusions. I would suggest getting a grocery pregnancy test. Get a friend, someone close to you, to go with you. Whatever the result is, you should see a doctor for sure. Doctors, I know at least here in the US, are good about keeping things in confidence. Pay attention to your body, and if you are pregnant, you NEED to see a doctor. If you do not want the baby (sorry for all you pro-life advocates, I'm one too) you should take action immediately. I understand that you could be embarrassed deeply by the situation, but take care of the "accident" you took part in and take action. Don't wait around.
I've had a similar experience, as has one or two of my friends. One of my friends actually had sex, the condom was too big and it came off inside her. She was histerical the entire night but did not get pregnant. That is not to say that you are immune, but that pregnancy does not happen 100% of the time in unprotected sex. Just calm down, talk to someone close to you, see a doctor. It will be ok. It's an overwhelming experience I know, but it's important that you get it checked out.
Hope everything will be ok.
2007-03-04 01:50:43 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 2⤊ 0⤋
Well, even if you were showing a bunch of symptoms, it could always mean something else.
I'd wait a bit first, see if your period comes, and if you miss it, then start worrying. If so, the easiest way to find out is if you pick up a pregnancy test from the supermarket or chemist; that way you don't have to worry your mum or the potential father until you know what's happening. They're not expensive, and they should give you the correct answer by the time you've missed your first period.
2007-03-04 01:33:48 · answer #3 · answered by tinania-elfireb 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
You should have gone for the morning after pill, but it is too late for that now. Get a Predictor test, it is supposed to give a result even though it is only a week. If you are not pregnant please do not take risks like this again, always have some con doms in your pocket and insist that the boy ware one. Good Luck, even if you are unlucky enough to be pregnant it is not the end of the world.
2007-03-04 02:44:11 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
Well im 9 months pregnant & im 16. So i kinda know a little about your situation. When I first realized I was pregnant was becuz my bf kept mentioning that I was peeing a lot. Then like you I started getting really bad headaces. Then I took 2 test they both said -negative but I knew i was so we went to the doc. & sure enough I was. So my point is you can have semptions & not be preg. or you can be. The only real way to know for sure is go to the doc. Dnt trust home test. Hope this was helpful!!
2007-03-04 02:18:51 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 3⤊ 0⤋
I'm really sorry, I do not want to give you an additional pressure. But there are pretty chance of you are getting preg unless one of you have any other prob.
1st thing is you were not taking the pills within that week. so at that the time you were with him, eggs might have released....
2nd thing is your partner has using the condom in a wrong way and aft that he has corrected it.
If God have protect you this time, protect your self next time!
bless you!
2007-03-06 12:04:51 · answer #6 · answered by Clang 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
sorry but how can you always be getting bad morning sickness?
you ONLY get morning sickness when pregnant
ONLY way to tell is get a pregnancy test tomorrow, you can get them cheap enough, 2 for a pound in pound zone , 89 p in home bargains yes there very effective
if your NOT pregnant please dont have unprotected sex again as it seems you have had a shock so maybe learn in future
2007-03-04 14:30:50 · answer #7 · answered by ♥♥™Tia™♥♥ 6 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Did you use protection at all? You could be pregnant but the symptoms your describing could be you just worrying yourself so much into to thinking these are all symptoms of pregnancy! take a test to be on the safe side! next time use a condom!!
2007-03-06 09:23:17 · answer #8 · answered by Natalie F 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Did you use a condom? Are you on the pill? Both are 99% effective when used properly, so relax.
If not, just wait for your period. Don't stress, because that can make it late too.
2007-03-04 01:56:31 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
u should wait for ur period honey ok if its late then go to see ur doctor if u cant talk to ur mum. If ur not take it as a lesson and be more carefull next time. gt him to practice if ur are going to continie to have sex and get some better contraceptive if i was u
2007-03-06 03:29:47 · answer #10 · answered by yummynottsmummy 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋