I found out through a combination of facebook.com and something else. The point being she never told me directly (btw im a guy) that she broke up, but now I know and I feel like I should be saying something. So should I be saying something, like "i saw ur not in a relationship on facebook with Tom, what happened" or "i saw ur not wit Tom on facebook anymore, everything ok, you wanna talk?" I really don't know what to say...OR is it just better to keep quiet until she tells me or one of her closer friends tells me or something like that?
2007-03-03 17:14:43 · 8 answers · asked by thee_guy 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Friends
Are you trying to date her now that she broke up with him? Why would it matter if you ask her about it? Do you not want her to know that you're snooping around or don't want her to know how you found out? If so, then don't tell her you know until you have an explanation. Or you could ask her how is Tom doing? But, I don't think its a big deal if you know and she knows you know unless the reason you know is something youre not proud of. Go ahead and tell her otherwise, even if you want to date her next.
2007-03-03 17:20:18 · answer #1 · answered by Cynthia W 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If it were me, before you end a conversation on the phone or in real life just say something like, "Hey, don't forget I'm always available if you need to talk".
That way it gives her a reason to let you know if she's feeling embarrassed or sad. She just might need a hug so it opens the door for her to know she can count on you.
But make sure you're actually there for her.
2007-03-03 17:19:48 · answer #2 · answered by Trumania 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
It sounds like you need to communicate over with him your self. You suggested it your self, you've heard this from rumors and people. you'll not in any respect understand the truth till you ask him. people improve aside, this isn't any longer properly worth crying over that. and in spite of if he does split with you, that doesn't advise you may't be friends.
2016-11-27 20:12:43 · answer #3 · answered by mcraney 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Girls like their space, and they handle break ups diffrently than guys, most of the time. Just wait maybe a couple days to about 2 weeks, if she doesn't tell you, than you should ask her
2007-03-03 17:40:15 · answer #4 · answered by •nel• 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Keep quiet till she tells you directly. If you say something to her before that, it may look like you'te stalking her or something.
2007-03-03 17:19:47 · answer #5 · answered by sweetgurl13069 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
wait for her to tell her the truth. I had to do this when I had a crush on my now boyfriend Michael.
2007-03-03 17:27:52 · answer #6 · answered by michael's girlfriend 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Wait it out. If she doesn't say anything within a few days, you could say something. n
2007-03-03 17:20:02 · answer #7 · answered by Nikki 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Wait for her to tell you.
2007-03-03 17:16:33 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋