ok heres the deal..me n my boyfriend have been having umprotected sex for a few months(pretty dum i know),?

Question

so last time we had sex was around the first two weeks of feb. but now i missed my period of feb. i been so preocupied in knowing if am pregnant or not,,am not ready for any babies...and am just so scared that is March already n stil no sign of period,,i have been taking preg. tests "First Response" n they all come to be negative..i dont know if its just me worrying so much about being pregnant...i just dont know...some one help!!!

Answer 1

I think that you are stressing about it so much that you are missing your period. Relax a little bit and not stress so bad and see if that does the trick.

Answer 2

If you don't already have an OB GYN go to a Planned Parenthood clinic and have a test done and talk to the staff there. Wait a couple of weeks, don't take any drugs or perscriptions and take another test. It could be that you will have your menstral cycle in the next couple of weeks. When you go to the clinic you can get some kind of birth control that will work best for you and if you are pregnant you could talk about your options with the medical professionals there.

When you're not ready to start a family yet, its best to use some kind of safe sex device. If you are in a monogamous relationship, you can use something other than condoms, like the pill, depo implant, or a spermicide. Good luck, you'll live through this. It happens a lot to all of us. Don't worry. No matter what you'll be fine.

I just want to add one final point. In today's modern society you can have all the healthy protected sex you want and it is perfectly fine to say that you are not ready for children and still maintain that intimacy with your partner. More power to you - get those birth control devices and live the woman's American dream! Just do it the smart way with the right protections until you're ready to be a mom. When you're responsible enough to use protections, you're responsible enough to have a healthy sex life.

Answer 3

First of all, February only has 28 days..don't panic yet. It really depends on when your period usually is. It might be too soon for the test to show up positive if you are pregnant. Also, some women have to have a blood test. Stress can delay your period. Have your eating habits changed, exercising more or less? These things can also delay your period. OR you could have an std from your boyfriend that would affect your reproductive organs. If you do find out that you are pregnant..please, make the best of it that you can. You have a little child depending on you. There are alot of moms that just don't care anymore. Don't be like that. Have a healthy pregnacy..don't smoke or do drugs or drink. If you find out that you aren't...remember how you worried this time..Is is worth the risk? Talk to someone you trust. Planned Parenthood is excellent..Get some help with birth control and stuff like that.

Answer 4

First off:
If you're not ready for a child, use protection... There's honestly so many forms of birth control out there, this problem shouldn't exist anymore. I'd understand if you couldn't get birth control anywhere, but if you go to a planned parenthood, they GIVE it to you for free...

If the pregnancy test is still coming up negative, you'll need to go to a clinic. They can do a blood test or an "internal test" to tell you if your cervix is closed or not. Just because it's negative, doesn't mean that you aren't, or couldn't be, pregnant. It just means that you don't have enough of the HCG hormone in your system to set off a positive test result.

Regardless of the outcome, be a bit more prepaired next time. The "It can't happen to me" outlook only works till it happens to you. Which, it might have already done.

Answer 5

U could just not get ur period becuz u are stressed out worrying if u are prego or not. I kno i have been stressed over things be4 and missed my period. U should calm down and I'm sure ur period will come... If u don't want kids u kno u should use something, and as 4 taking PG test, if u've taken so many and they all are negative it could be 2 soon 2 tell or u jus aren't prego.... If u are that concerned u should get a blood test done then that will tell u 4 sure. But until try not 2 stress so much and ur AF will prolly come!! good luck

Answer 6

If I'm correct, the First Response tests still show the lines right? If so, that's what I used and all the lines were so faint, I couldn't tell. I went out and got the digital tests that actually spell it out for you "Preg or Not Preg". I would suggest calling your GYN and asking for an appt., but they may not want to give you one right away... see if you can just go for the blood test. Or... every couple days, take another test... that gets costly though.

Answer 7

on the first response box does it say what day after the missed period you should use the test? If you waited the proper time it is Negative.

Answer 8

If you can't tell your parents about the situation, go to the health centre or clinic/ hospital as soon as possible, where they can do a definitive test, and get you the help you need if you need further help. If anything, they can provide you and your boyfriend with some condomns and birth control.

Try to make smarter decisions in the future, okay?

Answer 9

You are probably very nervous, so your period is late because of that. But, to be sure, go visit your doctor. You should visit your doctor anyway, so don't be scared. Everything is going to be OK.

Answer 10

Crisis time! Time to turn to Yahoo Answers. "Someone help!!!"
Now, where is that question? "Pretty DUMB I know?"
No, having unprotected sex is not "dumb", millions of people do it everyday. If you do not want a baby - try using protection. Next!