Is love supposed to hurt this much? I feel like my chest is weighed down, my arms are useless, my heart is heavy. Is there any way to just turn off my feelings?
2007-03-03 17:04:44 · 13 answers · asked by tankgirl190 6 in Family & Relationships ➔ Other - Family & Relationships
did someone break your heart? I had a situation like that three years ago. I have been hurt before, but until that time I never felt as though my heart was being ripped out. I am SO SO SO sorry to tell you that the only thing is time. Time will heal you. Until then surround yourself with you friends, get out and try to do fun things for yourself. Go get your nails done, or your hair...do things to make yourself feel good. It really helps to talk to friends about how you are feeling...Sorry!! It has happend to the best of us
2007-03-03 17:12:34 · answer #1 · answered by vcurness 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
It's not supposed to, but sometimes when things don't go as planned, people change and promises are broken it does hurt, hurt much more then it ever should. I know how you feel, actually I there right now. But I refuse to let the hurt take over, it's so much better just to let all the feelings out and let them go. I've tried shutting them down and not feeling but I missed so much. Find ways to let go of the hurt, ways to express your self and go and do something just for you, splurge on that something you really don't need and go get that extra dessert. One day you'll look around and realize it really doesn't hurt as bad as it used to....
2007-03-03 17:57:38 · answer #2 · answered by cihccihtog 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Nope, at least in no way you'd WANT to turn them off. But remember that love also sometimes makes everything go the other way too, and somehow that makes it worth it.
Pain sucks, but turning off your feelings is not the answer. Trust me, I "turned off" my feelings for a long time and lost a chunk of my life in the process. Figuring out how to properly deal with those feelings is your goal.
And to those below me who say that love doesn't hurt, they are wrong. Or lucky. Or haven't ever been in love with someone and had it not work out all peachy.
Just remember that no matter how bad it hurts now, it will get better. Nearly everyone has gone through what you are going through right now, and it sucks for each and every one of us. BUT, it gets better. For a lot of us, it gets lots better and we end up with someone better for us anyway. I know it doesn't seem possible, but it is.
Patience.
2007-03-03 17:06:47 · answer #3 · answered by JoePiekarski 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I was asking myself that today. It can be a pain when it doesn't work out, and I often wish I could just stop feeling altogether. There isn't really much of a way to stop it though. You've just got to be stronger than those feelings until they aren't a problem anymore. Just keep trying, I hope for the best for you and what you're going through.
2007-03-03 17:09:44 · answer #4 · answered by Morphage 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If you find a way let me know.People say the heart (organ) has nothing to do with love so why does your chest hurt so bad when you are hurt.
2007-03-03 17:08:16 · answer #5 · answered by Lexy320 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
genuine love lies interior the attention of the beholder and as you be attentive to one and all around us sees it in yet differently for them. people substitute on a known foundation and frequently out improve one yet another and emotions can substitute. frequently what we sense as love can get puzzled with being addicted to somebody and final in a secure zone with them because of fact it makes us uncomfortable to alter it. regardless of the two certainly one of you're doing here it does not look working and frequently loving somebody does not propose which you would be able to flow on with them the way issues are. If 2 people can't restoration what's erroneous then how can genuine love final perpetually? someone can substitute and walk away yet continuously carry a particular place for you of their heart because of fact issues intervene and make you notice one yet another in yet differently interior the long-term. i think that genuine love is a dedication to comprehend one yet another and studying a thank you to not depart on the grounds which you're taking the sturdy with the undesirable. whilst it somewhat is genuine love you already know sufficient to choose to alter issues for the extra advantageous and not walk away on the grounds which you're able to desire to artwork on conserving that love alive or it dies.
2016-10-17 05:35:31 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
No, love is not supposed to hurt or weigh you down..
Love makes you light and joyous...
2007-03-03 18:30:49 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
no, love isn't supposed to hurt. you shouldn't ever supress your feelings and you should enjoy your relationship and have fun.
2007-03-03 17:09:06 · answer #8 · answered by YourSummerObsession 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
yea it hurts but it means u care .......
it sucks u get sick to ur stomache if u think that someone u luv doesnt love u back ..........
2007-03-03 17:08:55 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
yes
2007-03-03 17:06:52 · answer #10 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋