to be straight up im 15 we moved in with my moms bf 2 months ago and he decides to punch me in the face and slap me drinking out of the milk container??? iv never been treated like this before. but it gets better... shes gona marry him. he has slapped me before just as "punishment" and he says it "hurts him more than it hurts me" but i dont see him screeming. my mom says i got it coming im thinking dont touch me ever but theres nothing i can really do about it. if they get married will he do something like this again. im not liking this guy and i really want him gone. how do i get him gone iv tryed everything.
2007-03-03 16:51:46 · 11 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Friends
go to your school counselor, they should send child protective services to the school to talk to you and get you out of the abusive situation that day, even send a cop or worker home with you to get your stuff. At least, that's how it works in canada. Good luck!
2007-03-03 16:56:20 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Yes, there is something you can do. Haven't you ever heard of child protective services? If your mother accepts his behavior towards you now before she has married him, it will get worse. You can report this to your school counselor,a teacher, or you can call it in over the phone yourself. Maybe when your mother gets investigated by child protection services, it will open her eyes. If not, you need to be taken away to someplace better anyway.
2007-03-07 23:30:18 · answer #2 · answered by teacher sub 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Thats terrible but all you can do is report it. I mean obviously your safety isn't that important to your mother. If you are not ready to re[port them just yet I suggest you start looking up studies that show that because he is able to do this to you then he is much much more likely to eventually batter your mother as well and that in many cases marriage only causes it to escalate. I still beg you to call an abuse hotline or social services, trust me your mother and her scummy bf are the ones who "have it coming"
2007-03-04 00:59:55 · answer #3 · answered by flamstrosity 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
My friends 13 y old son told his step dad to stop beating on him
and one day the S dad did a little kicking and shoving, the kid
got hurt, called the cops, s dad went to anger mngt and its never happened again.
you r too old for this noncense
2007-03-04 03:09:26 · answer #4 · answered by Uncle rvk 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
drinking out of the carton isn't cool butttttttttt,,,,,,there is no reason to be treated like that. good grief what happens if you really do something bad. and your mom is gonna marry this guy. is she so desparate that she would put her relationship with this obvious loser ahead of your welfare. mom is obviously blinded by what she perceives to be love. if he does anything to harm you again call the police. people who do this to others seldom ever quit the behavior. if all else fails run like hell !!!!!!!!!!!!!
2007-03-04 01:11:15 · answer #5 · answered by cindy p 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
yo mama dont seem to be siding wit you on this espeacilly if she tells you that u had it com'n that aint yo daddy and he has no right to lay a hand on you....this is wat you can do tell someone you can trust lik ur grandma or dad ect..if all else fails you shouldnt be n a home thats abusing you espeacilly if the dude is drunk or jus strught crazy move out tak urself to child services....call the police...mov in wit a relative but u need to get out before sothin worse happens
2007-03-04 01:02:59 · answer #6 · answered by physco_porsche 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Dude, step up and whoop his pussy asss. Some tough guy he is beaten up on a kid. He will change his thoughts when he realizes he got phucked up by a teenager.
2007-03-04 01:09:52 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
catch him doing something illegal and show a trusted adult. get the guy in prison for abusing you! he has a bad influence on your mom too
2007-03-04 01:16:46 · answer #8 · answered by jessica 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Report him, or go live with one of your other realitives
that's abuse
2007-03-04 01:37:15 · answer #9 · answered by •nel• 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
run away....hide, but not far from home. and leave a note about him hitting you
2007-03-04 01:03:12 · answer #10 · answered by alien 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋