My best friend just started hating me for like no reason. I just started going with her ex though. She said to though. She even helped hook us up!! But everyone said he really likes me. Apparently when he went with her though he didn't really like her though. Do you think this is affecting our friend relationship? Also she has gotten mad at me alot. And claims 'noone' likes me. Should I even be her friend? I'm moving in like 2 or 3 months anyways. Or maybe next week!
2007-03-03 16:45:37 · 5 answers · asked by ☮♥$ 3 in Family & Relationships ➔ Friends
She was just being gracious when she encouraged you to go out with him. She clearly doesn't like you dating him. Aside from that, why would she? He's now told you that he never liked her anyway....did you tell her that? Clearly it's affected your friendship. Why would you want to date her leftovers, anyway?
Your moving could also be a source of her behavior. Sometimes when people anticipate a major, life altering change, like moving, they start to break emotional bonds with the people around them as a way to protect themselves from the sadness of missing you. If you leave and she's mad at you now, she can pretend that she never cared about you anyway. It's not necessarily a rational thing or even something that she's aware of......maybe she's sad that your last few months of living near her are going to be spent with her EX boyfriend. Have you stopped hanging out with her because of him? I think it's time you re-evaluate who means more to you. If your time there is limited, wouldn't you want it to be the best it can be?
2007-03-03 16:52:00 · answer #1 · answered by luv2teech2001 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
like everyone told me if the guy ur with is worth giving up a friendship than do and if she is jealous b/c u have him now and she dont than she has to learn to deal with it and ya it could be affecting ur friendship with ur best friend but u have to make that choice if u want to keep him and ur friendship with her or end a friendship with her b/c she gets mad at u a lot or that she hates u for no reason well i hope that helps u
2007-03-04 00:51:36 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Gosh..
you need her more than ever.
Dumb the boy. Your friendship matter the most. Or you might best give out a conference for the three of you too(you, your best friend, and your boyfriend)
You'll find it easier to solve the problem.
2007-03-04 00:50:11 · answer #3 · answered by middle of mind 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Well, seeing as you just said she started hating you - then, yes, it's affecting your friendship. You serious?
2007-03-04 00:52:47 · answer #4 · answered by T D 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
that is weird if she was the one that hooked you guys up....but maybe she is still jealous. just ask her why she is mad that is the only way you can tell
2007-03-04 00:49:04 · answer #5 · answered by Sarah 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋