is it ok for a uncle or and aunt to say to their niece or nephew i love my other niece or nephew more than you why or why not
2007-03-03 16:34:17 · 16 answers · asked by sandyandgreg 1 in Entertainment & Music ➔ Other - Entertainment
Sometimes, you can't help who you love. As long as your kids are happy and healthy first..I suppose it would be okay. My friend sometimes really doesn't like her kids (they can be really nasty to her or each other). That's not saying that she doesn't LOVE them because she does. I just think that sometimes we can't help who we love the most.
2007-03-03 16:46:12 · answer #1 · answered by MeYellowKitty 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
THat would depend on alot of things especially the age of your child. For instance if your son or daughter is an adult who has perpetually screwed up and caused you enormous amounts of grief and aggravation then I would have to say that it is okay to love your niece or nephew that that been nothing but a source of pride to you more because your child ios an adult and therefore completely responsible for thier own lives and actions. However if your child is truly a child then it is wrong and you need to either try to correct the behaviors in your child that cause you to withhold your affection or spend more time with your chid in order to learn what you do love about your child. probably both.
In the case of telling one niece or nephew that you love another one more that is also wrong.It is a mean petty spiteful thing to do that can only cause jealousy and resentment. It is also a completely unnnecessary thing to do, there is no reason that this would ever come up in normal conversation.Of course you will have a favorite niece or nephew but you do not have to make it blatantly obvious.
2007-03-03 16:48:00 · answer #2 · answered by flamstrosity 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
My mom loves my cousins more than me (and I am pretty good, but she always manages to find things that are wrong with me that I really cannot control and says that I cannot do certain things, while she accepts them for who they are and encourages them in whatever they want to do and thinks that they are wonderful when they do it)
At first it really hurt (I wan only about 10 back then- my cousins were much younger than me) and I didn't like my cousins and then I realized that it wasn't their fault that she loved them more and it wasn't mine either so I just take it for what it is. I love my cousins- I avoid being affected by my mom the way I used to be.
I actually used to think that I was a brat for feeling that way.
It really isn't okay because they will feel really worthless when it comes to you and not trust you anymore, but I guess people can't help who they love.
2007-03-03 17:05:02 · answer #3 · answered by Aurelia KMNO4 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
i don't think it is.but,unfortunately,people do favor certain people over others.grandparents can favor their grandchildren over their own children.i think it's very sad that people treat their own children like that.but maybe they just see something in the niece or nephew,or the grandchildren,that they just can't see in their child.
not that it's okay to shut out their child,and to favor the other children.if i had children,i'd want them to know,that no matter what,i love them unconditionally.and nobody else would ever take their place in my life.no cousins,no nieces or nephews,nobody.they are my children.and i would never treat them,as if any other child was more important than them.with my kids,they would know,for sure,that they are number one in my heart.and nobody could ever,ever take their rightful place in my life.
2007-03-03 17:21:55 · answer #4 · answered by Miss yavatar girl 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
That is one messed up warped situation...and no, I don't believe a parent should love a neice or nephew over thier own children... I have never heard of it...and wished that I never had...
2007-03-03 18:45:01 · answer #5 · answered by LeftField360 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
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2016-10-02 08:38:07 · answer #6 · answered by koltay 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Of course not. A kids need a love, protecting family environment. If they believe their parents love someone else more then it leaves them hurt with low self-esteem. If your parents can't love you who can.
2007-03-03 16:48:34 · answer #7 · answered by Kain j 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Not only is it wrong It's friggen cruel.If in fact that is the way someone feels they should keep it to them self's or stay away from the the kids.
2007-03-03 16:40:15 · answer #8 · answered by MISS K.I.A. 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Absolutely, my nieces treat me better than my son since he was married 4yr ago. His wife make it clear her family comes first.
2007-03-03 16:38:42 · answer #9 · answered by Memeiko 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
sure if they want to be in some psychos book about why they went up to the tower with the deer gun .,, look just be honest with them tell them they are hurting your feeling with this crap and to cut it out or they may have to pay 80 dollars a week to find out why your weird
2007-03-03 16:38:49 · answer #10 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋