Someone who was like a grandmother to me died this sunday and I just can't get over it. My family wasn't as close to her as I was so we can't comfort eachother because they don't feel the way I do. I'm having a hard time sleeping, I can't think straight, I've had a horrible headache since the day I found out, and I feel like I'm having a panic attack sometimes. What can I do to help myself get over it?
2007-03-03 16:08:27 · 4 answers · asked by SoyDeChristo 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Other - Family & Relationships
I can't even believe she's gone. I feel like I'm having a nightmare that I can't wake up from. I never even got to say good-bye because my mom had no time to bring me to the hospital and my grandparents are away, they would have if they were here. I've been trying to cope with it but I just can't. I feel like I'm going to shatter any minute.
2007-03-03 16:51:21 · update #1
Really there is no easy way to get over the loss of someone special in your life..I lost my Mother on July 4,2006 and then 5 days later lost my Father's Mom..My dad died in 2001..On Feb.22,2007 my Mother's Mom went home so the feeling of loss is really felt here to..
The only thing I do to help myself is remember the great times I have had with all my grandparents and parents..I know they would want me to strive each day to be the best at what I try to do..I know they look down on me and smile..This lady you lost is watching over you..Supporting you and rooting you on..She knows how much you loved her and Im sure she loved you to..Take that love and give to others..Before I would sleep I would talk to my family or the one i was grieving over at that time...Then before I knew it,,I would fall in the most gentle of sleeps...This lady would want you to enjoy the life you have been given and you know you will see her again some day...Praying helps to..God will comfort you in more ways than you can imagine..Ask Him for Peace of mind,body and spirit...That is a winner in my book..God bless you and I pray the HOly Spirit to surround you and comfort you thru this time in your life...
2007-03-03 16:18:12 · answer #1 · answered by glowworm 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Time. The only thing you can do is wait. Continue living your life and staying occupied that way you won't be thinking about her all the time. Also remember that's it's ok to cry and talk about it with people you love. That's helps the healing process. Good luck and I am sorry that happened.
2007-03-03 16:23:19 · answer #2 · answered by thefirehot1 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
All of this takes time.
Right now, this is so fresh that it's hard to put out of your mind.
Over time it will get easier, honest.
So sorry you don't have family who will help you through. How about a counselor or minister or older friend?
Hope you can find someone to talk to.
2007-03-03 16:24:31 · answer #3 · answered by diannegoodwin@sbcglobal.net 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
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2016-10-17 05:32:10 · answer #4 · answered by ? 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋