Ladies (preferably Christians) I am 31 and cannot stop mast****ting. you know what I'm talking about but for some reason, yahoo wont let me post it. It has been a problem since I was a young girl. Yes I had things happen and I did get help but still have problems. I did it when I was married too. Can you stop? How???
2007-03-03 16:07:19 · 10 answers · asked by gettoughlove 1 in Health ➔ Women's Health
what kinda dildo?
2007-03-04 01:46:34 · answer #1 · answered by wild pony 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I am a Christian, and I do not think that this is a sin, although I can understand why it is bothering you if it has become an obsession. There are a couple of things to consider here. One, you are reaching the age when women experience their sexual peak. So, you have some hormones going bananas. The good thing is, you're only being promiscuous with yourself, not random guys! (I'm not trying to be crude, just lightening the mood) You have had some issues in the past, and the self-gratification could be your way of dealing with sexual issues on your own personal level. If you really feel that you have become obessed, you should talk to a professional (doctor or therapist). I know that probably seems totally embarassing, but obsessive behavior of any kind can be the result of underlying problems that are easily treated. Please don't feel like a bad person or a bad Christian. You know God loves you, and He wants you to be well and happy with yourself. Self-gratification is very normal. I do it, and I am married and active in my church. I don't think there is anything wrong with it. If it helps you relax before bed, or if it just feels good, it's fine! I would only worry if you think you might be preoccupied with it. Good luck, and God bless.
2007-03-04 00:16:59 · answer #2 · answered by Jennifer H 2 · 3⤊ 0⤋
Think of it like an addiction to a drug. Your "activity" creates pleasure, and you are addicted to the pleasure you are creating. Now, I don't see anything wrong with this as long as it doesn't interfere with your life (work, family, relationships, etc.).
If you really want to stop, one of the best remedies is exercise. A mile run, workout on an exercise bike, join a gym and go to step classes, whatever works for you. These all increase the endorphins in your brain. Endorphins are the "pleasure hormones" that will give you the same satisfaction without that particular "activity".
2007-03-04 00:17:40 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
Go on and pleasure away girl!!! Its addictive, its because it releases those "feel good" hormones. Try picking up other activities that release them, start to exercise more find something you're really interested in. Don't worry about doing it a couple times, be proud, be free and lay back and enjoy!
Whether you're married or not, sometimes a guy just can't do it properly.
2007-03-04 00:17:57 · answer #4 · answered by toronto_leafs 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Why you want to stop ? Look it is not Sin and truly speaking, it is healthy. It is unhealthy when if you think you are doing wrong or doing a Sin. But trust me, it is Healthy ( both Mentally & physically ). Pls dont worry. If you need any further advice, pls write me . you can get my e-mail as well as IM . Ok. DONT WORRY, Worry for this habit is VERY Unhealthy.
2007-03-04 01:02:44 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
theres nothing wrong with it, unless you do it so much that it interupts your daily routine.
boys, yes all boys do it every single day.
its a pefectly heathy activity for anyone, everyone of all ages, puberty to old men&woman. you can do it alone or have you significant other do it for you.
your acting all crazy about it like you need to be a support group to stop yourself. thats not true. cool out.
its not bad for you. so dont beleive that
2007-03-04 00:57:16 · answer #6 · answered by Josie 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Lmao...my friend just showed me this and i couldnt help comment on it...
Do what some asian people used ot do with their kids... dip your hands in hot water with pepper juices... and it will keep you from touching yourself.. cuz when you do... it will burn... i found this out after reading some asian literature... i found it funny....
2007-03-04 00:13:40 · answer #7 · answered by -Loricatus Nex- 2 · 1⤊ 1⤋
Keep hugging and loving your husband. say sweet things to him, ect. and have.. youknow.
That's my best advice.
2007-03-04 00:15:31 · answer #8 · answered by applejockey 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
i cant stop either, lets do it to each other, i will drive to you, email me :)
2007-03-04 01:59:22 · answer #9 · answered by Adam B 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
your grosss
2007-03-04 04:58:27 · answer #10 · answered by Hey there 1 · 0⤊ 1⤋