I am 21 years old and for about 1 year now I have been feeling alone and unloved. I have a good family but no friends. I also do not have a boyfriend which is one of the reasons I feel so alone. How do I get rid of this feeling?
2007-03-03 16:05:08 · 7 answers · asked by xrocksuperstar 1 in Social Science ➔ Psychology
Go places,,,meet people,,,have fun
The boyfriend will come along when you get out more,,,
2007-03-03 16:09:44 · answer #1 · answered by Debbie 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
well, and i am several years older and can say, u don't get rid of it, u just get used to it. unfortunately the nature of contemporary society is very lonely. people are isolated. the problem is if you feel lonely it's like a bad smell, people can tell, so you can't act like you really need someone, or the guys will run the other way. if you need a bf you won't get one, but if you can get used to feeling lonely and come to terms with it, then people will feel / act differently. you don't want to be clingy which can be difficult when you feel lonely.
2007-03-03 16:15:12 · answer #2 · answered by nemo_liber 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
send me an email, i will talk to you and then you will like me cuz i am awesome, seriously tho, im a guy and i feel the same way right now, i just moved to my other house to go snowboarding all winter and i have no friends there and my family stays at my other house, the worse part is i dont know where to meet people around here or even when i go snowboarding cuz its a resort so people dont even live by me---i just try and keep active and always be doing something, time goes by faster and you dont really think about it
2007-03-03 16:19:51 · answer #3 · answered by dormat_029 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Umm its very hard...i feel the same way...i have an awesome family and a best friend but i think everyone needs that special love only a mate can give u...There isnt a way of gettin rid of it i dont think unless u find someone...
2007-03-03 16:09:34 · answer #4 · answered by Cypress 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Me too.....I'm 17 I dont have bf. My best friends either have bfs or are on the process of going on a relationship.. I'm so lonely sometimes I felt like dying.. Seeing at how my close friend forgets bout me when that guy she likes is present.
2007-03-03 16:09:41 · answer #5 · answered by ♥Butt3rfLyKis5ez 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
engage yrself in some activity and never let yrself bored.. call and talk 2 yr friends.. or go 4 shopping..
2007-03-03 16:17:38 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Find service opportunities. Engage yourself in something productive. Having companionship helps, but you'll never find that either until you find ways to get out. Also, find God. Once you realize He's there, you'll never feel totally alone.
2007-03-03 16:10:09 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 1⤋