Seems all my husband does is get on the pc and play games. Everything in his world revolves around it. We have been married for 14 years and I am just fed up with this what can I do ? I have talked I have kicked and screamed I have cryed I have done everything you can imagine other wise so what can I do ? Thank you for your adivise .
2007-03-03 15:40:21 · 14 answers · asked by margo322 3 in Family & Relationships ➔ Marriage & Divorce
Ignore him. Go out. Start a hobby. I don't care if it's KNITTING. Occupy your time. Act like it doesn't bother you. Then when you leave him alone for a while, he'll come looking for you. If he doesn't, leave him.
2007-03-03 15:45:45 · answer #1 · answered by Ade 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Sounds like my husband and I've been married not even a year.Whenever my husband is stressed from his job ( he works in a high stress enviorment),peers or family or bothering him,he would play his games to escape what he is feeling.After awhile,I talk to him.
Your husband is probably using the PC and games to escape from everyday life. Is something bothering or stressing out your husband that he can not get away from the computer or video games? Yes, they are addictive but he has to realize there is life beyond the computer screen. Selfish as this may seem but you have to step in and tell him your family needs you.If he fails,I would stop paying the Internet.
2007-03-03 23:47:26 · answer #2 · answered by fairydust52606 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
My advice: Leave him be! The more you try and seperate him, the more he will want to be on it. Maybe he's bored with you and needs an escape. My computer is my ONLY source of entertainment, news, work, and fun, so let the poor guy use it in peace. Maybe you can get on another computer/a new computer and both play the same game online, which worked for me and my loved one. Or chat naughty with him through AIM.
2007-03-03 23:54:41 · answer #3 · answered by zelgadiss 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I swear I think that the internet is worse than booze sometimes..If you feel neglected or ignored or less important than the computer and the games.. you need to either 1) get rid of the computer (or at least the internet) or 2) give him an ultimatum (one you can live with)
2007-03-03 23:44:38 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
my husband of 7 years today is on the pc so much me asking him over and over again to stop spending so much time on it and spend more time with me and the kids. does nothing he tells me to stop talking and go back to bed or just leave him alone because he is not going to stop just get use to it he says.honey its not only games there looking at its porn,chat lines,even as far as posting there self up as singles do some investagation on your pc look up the past history and try to look around for pass words these will give you your answer your looking for it worked for me and he was caught.dont be like most women and let him get away with dogging you out do something good for yourself . he will come around when he is ready if not leave his *** easier said then done).
2007-03-04 00:08:58 · answer #5 · answered by nomi 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
it wont change. ive been married for almost 1 year and been together with my husband for almost 8 years. he too plays on the computer (stupid world of war craft. yes he is a dork hahaha lol!!) but its not 24/7. i tell him that idont like it but i know its his activity that he enjoys. keeps him out of my hair too. hahaha. there needs to be some kind of middle ground though. tell him you need time your you and him and he needs to get off the computer. throwing a fit will jsut piss him off and make him want to be on it more (trust me, it will). you should be happy hes not abusing you or is never home or is doing drugs or somethng like that.
2007-03-03 23:48:30 · answer #6 · answered by Awesome Rockin Mom 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Start going out find your own hobby obviously he knows your there so he feels content, but get dressed up spend some time on the town do something for yourself and then you ll see how his head will start turning your way.
2007-03-03 23:46:56 · answer #7 · answered by none 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I had the same problem a couple years ago. My husband would spend 8h/day playing a stupid war game. It tried everything: screaming, getting mad..........but nothing worked....so I tried completely different. Because he would check his email from time to time I started to send him emails like "why don´t you come upstairs? our daughter is sleeping".......or " let´s order some pizza and have some fun..".....or.....messages to his cell phone: "what do you want me to do to you tonight?"
It worked!!!!!
2007-03-03 23:57:41 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
The best thing to do is in bed talk to him and make him involed with somthing you both like to do. It will work if you just don't make him anything to eat or clean his laundry and he will notice that you are sad and he will come talk to you and you both can talk about your feelings at the same time.
2007-03-03 23:46:08 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Buy yourself some SEXY lingerie and some Very Sexy( Cologne) by Victorias Secret. Dance around, make some erotic moves and blow him kisses, right in front of the pc and if he doesn't notice you...maybe you need to call your lawyer. (SOON)! Good Luck...
2007-03-03 23:46:58 · answer #10 · answered by MissBadto_ the bone 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋