Okay my first problem is girls im gay yet i havent told anyone im in 10th grade
in highschool I have 3 diffrent girls that are like in love with me and i dont
know what to tell them its like sometimes there cute and sometimes there not. I
think im gay im pretty sure but sometimes i think oh that girls hot or something
i dont know what to tell them i havent had this problem b4 with girls i guess my
looks are getting me in trouble i just want them to leave me alone im fine with
being friends with them.
My other problem happens to be with this guy. He always says random things to
me and when i shake his hand he makes comments like hey cutie and whats up sexy.
I think he knows im gay hes noisey like that hes cute and what ever but i dont
know what to think of him. Do you think hes playing games with me or do you
think he wants something from me.
My 3 problem is another guy he confuses me im not sure if hes gay bi str8 hes
so mysterious yet hot. Hes latino but he acts like he str8 and then he acts gay
i dont get him sometimes we talk sometimes once upon a time we were in each
others top 8 on myspace.
Finally im really ready to come out im about to be 16 and im ready to get out
and start meeting people how should i go about coming out to my closes friends
and family i ready to get this past me thanks alot
2007-03-03 15:32:01 · 5 answers · asked by Anonymous in Society & Culture ➔ Cultures & Groups ➔ Lesbian, Gay, Bisexual, and Transgender
1. your closest family & friends probably already know
2. coming out will make the girls stop coming on to you.
3. coming out will make those cute boys, if gay, feel comfortable coming out to you
2007-03-03 15:37:10 · answer #1 · answered by Gabrielle 6 · 1⤊ 0⤋
I would say that a good portion of your friends either already know, or wont care. When I came out to my friends, for the most part, it was a two way conversation. For some reason a lot of people end up being friends with a group of the same orientation as them even if not everyone knows it. I can't help you with the parents, cause I haven't done that part yet. What I've heard is that you need to give them some time to adjust. It's big news even if they are totally cool with it. With they guys I would say flirt and see what happens, but thats just me.
2007-03-03 23:53:43 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
Just reading your so called problems, gave me a headache! Yes you have some serious problems. Do not worry about it, now-a-days parents are wussies and probably gay too! Now if I was your dad, I would kickin you *** like no tomorrow. Get with the chicks fool and stop forcing ****** it is just ridiculous! And you know it. there is nothing better than hot Pssy to put yours into, dont believe me then just ask a lesbo
2007-03-04 00:34:48 · answer #3 · answered by ? 3 · 0⤊ 1⤋
wow u said a lot lol. i think u should consult a close friend, one whom with u can trust ur life with, about these dilemas. but if u had to go on my opinion----u only live once!! go for it and ask the boy if he is gay, if he is not u should ask him to respect ur privacy and everything would hopefully work out for u. best of luck to u!!
2007-03-04 00:22:17 · answer #4 · answered by im confused! 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
your in 10th grade thats young,i an 42,and i first of all it is okay to feel all those things with both, thats life, do not put a lable on yourself but do not go far sexually yet at your age and if you do,be careful,,its okay to love ,no matter what the sex.
2007-03-03 23:40:04 · answer #5 · answered by justme 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋