Be sure she really is turned on first. Foreplay. Long walks, communication, music, relaxation, appreciation, commitment. You will know when she has an orgasm. All that moaning and groaning isn't it. Her vaginal muscles go into spasms. You seem to see sex as some kind of indoor sport which I would consider to be a real turnoff.
2007-03-03 15:44:14
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answered by Anonymous
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You will know IF a woman has an orgasm. It doesn't take a lot of knowledge to know if it is real or fake. Too man indications and I'm not talking about vocal indications, woman can do those.
Keep in mind some women NEVER have a orgasm so don't feel bad if it doesn't happen. There is nothing she can do or you can do. That type woman normally just falls back to enjoying the closeness, tenderness of love making. If you do your part and nothing happens....so be it. I would talk with her and find out if there is anything wrong with you or what you are doing. Ask her if there is anything different she would like. Good luck. Pops
2007-03-03 15:40:28
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answered by Pops 6
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Every woman is different; therefore, there is nothing you can do to make sure she has an orgasm. You've got the wrong attitude. If you are so concerned about her achieving climax, you are missing out on many other, more important things. Stop worrying about her reaching orgasm, and focus more on foreplay, tenderness, unique settings, etc. Then, and only then, will women truly enjoy the experience - and they'll come back for more!
2007-03-03 15:37:16
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answered by Memphis qt 4
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Every woman is different. What really gets one going could completely turn off the next. So asking is a good way to find out but can kind of be a mood killer. Trial and error is the only other choice.
2007-03-03 15:37:09
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answered by j2daq 2
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I suggest being honest and talking to her. Ask what she likes and doesn't like and if she doesn't know suggest that she look new and different things up on the internet that she would be interested in trying. That's what worked for me and my boyfriend.
2007-03-03 15:38:08
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answered by Stacey O 1
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First off every Lady is different, The main thing is to take your time on everything. Then ask her if she wants this or that or what she wants from you
2007-03-03 15:44:37
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answered by Mistical 2
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ask her. communication is the best way to know any info from another person.
2007-03-03 15:33:40
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answered by KitKat 7
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go down on her. and if you're close enough to her, ask her what she likes if you're comfortable with it. Cuz I'll tell you what, God didn't make any 2 of them girls the same.
2007-03-03 15:37:36
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answered by Stingo 34 3
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some will have an orgasm and not even tell you, thus she wants more, multiple orgasms.
2007-03-03 17:08:31
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answered by Goldfish 4
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I'll give you a really simple, to the point answer, and it's as easy as this: oral sex.
2007-03-03 17:20:34
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answered by Cat Loves Her Sabres 6
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