My husband has this ex that. I sware she must have put a sensor in his manhood.Cause it never fails when ever we are going to make love. No matter what time of the day or night. She will call or stop by. I give up please send some helpful advice.
2007-03-03 15:25:17 · 7 answers · asked by scoobydoopiper 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Marriage & Divorce
He does have kids with this woman. And I do get along other times with her. But she is just such a pain in the A**
2007-03-03 15:42:15 · update #1
I would not answer the phone or door. A few times of frustration standing at the front door waiting until she realizes you aren't going to answer will end her stopping by unannounced.
PS not good for the love life to answer the door or phone for anyone during intimate moments
2007-03-03 15:30:06 · answer #1 · answered by Just Curious 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Put a sock or a pair of slinky, racy panties on your doorknob. When she stops by and asks what they are, tell her that you put them there so people know not to bother you when you're 'being intimate' (or choose a better term). If that doesn't get the picture across, politely request that she must call before she comes over. Then, when she calls, don't answer the phone.
Better yet, when you're about to do it, unplug the phones or turn them off or whatever.
One of my friends had that problem with an ex that wouldn't leave her alone, so she answered the phone and kept having sex while she was talking to him.
He stopped calling.
Also, why is she coming over if she's an ex? Are they still friends? Do they have children together? Why?
If you want to take the tactful route, take and put a do-not-disturb sign on the door and unplug the phones/turn them off when you're about to get intimate. Tell her that you don't like being 'visited' so often.
2007-03-03 23:37:22 · answer #2 · answered by Bachman-ette 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
First of all change your phone number to an unlisted number so that she can not call you anymore or if you have caller id just do not answer the phone. Lock the doors and do not answer them and tell her to not stop by at such indecent hours and if she conitnues to do so you may have to get an order of protection agains her. This is harrassment. You may also have to move to a place where she cannot find you as well. Good luck to you.
2007-03-03 23:37:02 · answer #3 · answered by Lady Hewitt 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You need to tell her there are certain times she can call or stop by. Like from example 3-5 she can call. And the only way she can stop by is when she calls. And if she didn't realize she is an ex not a friend and she needs to back off you and your husband can have a relationship. And personally I would drag her to a shrink with you and let him tell her that she is stepping on ur toes and she needs to back off. good luck.
2007-03-03 23:32:46 · answer #4 · answered by aysha a 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Stop answering the phone or door. Seriously. Stop. Just because the phone rings or the door is being knocked on does not mean it needs to be answered.
OR if you prefer you can go the more direct route. Pick up the phone and say, "I'm sorry, we don't have time to talk right now. We are about to f**k. We'll call you back when we are done." She'll think twice on calling you ever again.
2007-03-03 23:31:48 · answer #5 · answered by Poppet 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Stop being so receptive and nice when she comes over. Just start being very cold. No need to get nasty but don't be warm.
2007-03-03 23:30:10 · answer #6 · answered by Tip Top 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Tell him to tell her to stop coming by uninvited.
2007-03-03 23:33:27 · answer #7 · answered by Ade 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋