2007-03-03 15:22:04 · 25 answers · asked by THKE 1 in Social Science ➔ Sociology
The answer is simple because it depends on how you feel about the person, if you like the man then he is flirting, if you dont like the man then he is coming onto you.
2007-03-03 15:43:40 · answer #1 · answered by moondog 3 · 5⤊ 0⤋
The way I see it, a man you like flirts with you, and a man you don't like comes onto you. Really there is no difference though.
2007-03-04 00:51:31 · answer #2 · answered by sunday girl 6 · 2⤊ 0⤋
There is a difference. Flirting with a woman may be a man's only knowhow of communicating with the fairer sex. It isn't uncommon that the friendly response is totally casual. But, if flirting works for attracting a potential friend, it may advance into sexual innuendo. This natural progression is detrimental in so many instances of western civilization, but paramount to successful relationships in less media-centric regions.
2007-03-04 17:26:52 · answer #3 · answered by SkewsMe.com 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
In my opinion, there IS a difference!!!
Flirting = a Tactic.
Coming onto you = a Goal.
There are many people who flirt, who don't necessarily want to come onto somebody. For many people, flirting is just fun.
Coming onto you means he's interested in you (and not necessarily for the most noble of reasons), and acting in that direction - and ONE of the ways they may be coming on to you is through the use of flirting.
2007-03-04 04:15:22 · answer #4 · answered by sky2evan 3 · 6⤊ 0⤋
That would be, If he makes an attempt to get you alone with him, for a date, a drink, a ride, anything that would take your relationship further- that would be the coming on to you thing.
Flirting can be just a temporary high a person gets from flirting and being flirted with in return.
2007-03-04 02:02:24 · answer #5 · answered by Katydid 3 · 0⤊ 1⤋
A flirtatious man may be very complimentary to you, smiling often, agreeing with you often, and being solicitous to you. He may offer to open a door, carry a package, or engage in unnecessary small talk.
A man who is coming on to you is overt. He makes direct overtures to you, asking you out, telling you his personal desires toward you. He states a specific goal.
2007-03-03 23:53:46 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 1⤋
A man who is flirting with you might just 'shoot the breeze,' in talking. He might smile, blush, joke, etc.
A man who is coming on to you may actually be right in your face, might rub against you, might talk with sexual undertones, and the jokes might also be of a sexual nature.
2007-03-04 00:14:14 · answer #7 · answered by Holiday Magic 7 · 2⤊ 0⤋
Nothing for a man. A man's brain is in his penis on that one. But for a woman flirting is attention seeking with pleasure sense heightened, and coming onto you gets you involved sexually
2007-03-03 23:34:09 · answer #8 · answered by atantatlantis 3 · 1⤊ 3⤋
All part of the same end result.
2007-03-07 05:40:55 · answer #9 · answered by rogerglyn 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
flirting men are doing the rounds with many prospects. a man coming on to you suggests that he is done with the others and currently, you are the one. welcome him.!
2007-03-04 03:44:20 · answer #10 · answered by Alag N 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋