Why do some people believe its ok to cheat on a partner ?

Question

Some people seem to be so gutless and pathetic that they will seek out comfort in anothers arms or bed all the while they remain with their so called partner ! Are these irresponsible cowardly people capable of trust and of being faithfull ? I f its not all they want at home why can't these emotionally weak women just grow up and leave and have a little class and confidence. I find nothing more hypocritical and disgusting as these horrid women ! Comments ?

Answer 1

The do this because they are looking for any excuse to cheat and to blame another person for it. No these people are not capable of trust or of being faithful at all. They are just selfish and mean. These women do not leave because they feel that this is how it is supposed to be and if they would just go for counseling and leave the person and seek help they just may see different and move on with thier life and leave the cheating dirt bad behind. It is NEVER ok to cheat on anyone. If it is the women who are cheating then the men should leave them as well.

Answer 2

I believe its because they get out of there comfort zone with their partner. Fighting and not being able to communicate plays a big part. When you don't get the attention at home from your partner ,you get cravings to get it somewhere else . I think when the love,trust and respect is gone ,some people are scard to move on. It is alot easier to cheat and make no changes. Its harder to face reality,be honest with that person and be real even if you break their heart. Sometimes people fear change or that they will never find anything better. So they preplan to make sure when they leave their partner, or their partner leaves them they have a back up plan. It might not be right,but people look out only for themselfs in times of need and comfort.

Answer 3

Yes, it's sad. I am married to a man who was cheated on many, many times by his ex-wife and it's very sad that someone would do that and then expect the injured spouse to just forgive them and come running back lmao.....anyway. There are people out there such as myself and many others who believe in love and honesty and only having sex with the person you're with, you know, faithful and good, not cheating and hurting. You'll find one! Don't let this person turn you against all women. There are some emotionally unstable and unfaithful ones but you just have to weed those ones out until you find a real woman who would never do that to a man she loved and respected!

Take Care,
Tori

Answer 4

You're preaching to the choir dude! We all feel the same way. Some of us could interject a few more harsh words of description, probably of the four letter variety. However, I must say you are focused on one gender. This may have happened to you so you are focused on women. But, we guys cheat far more than women! We've gotten it down to a science. Most are journeyman in this category! However, your description fits us all! Pathetic is probably the best term used. Good job!

Answer 5

Most are not able to be trusted. but a select few can.my husband and i separated for a while, while he was gone he had a girlfreind. turned out he was seeing this bimbo before he separated. i moved a state away and took our kids with me. after 3 months and beind abused by a woman for the whole three months he came crawling back. because i loved him i let him come home. it took a while but he did earn my trust back. it has been 2 years and our relationship is stronger than before. the things going on in the home that caused our problems were worked out and now we dont fight much anymore. Cheating is not ok but not all cheaters are hopeless.

Answer 6

Just women? No way! Men pull this bullshit all the time. You may not be one of them, but it happens.

Women do this because men forget that a women still needs to be loved and cherished. While I am married and faithful, I very much understand how this can happen.

Listen to women they may not sit you down and say "I am unhappy" but they sure do give you huge signals. Open you eyes and remember to say I love you constantly, and SHOW her you care.

Answer 7

men and women who do this, are cowards, i don't believe they are trustworthy. they are immature, think they had high expectations of what it would be like, and when it didn't quite fit into what they wanted, they go back out there and try to find it, to find someone who will complete them, and really nothing can do that, no person can do that. they are weak and have no conscience. think they stay with the partner due to financial reasons, and nothing else.

Answer 8

i have mixed feelings on people cheating on others... on one hand i despise such people because it is immature, idiotic , and very trashy....(along with much of what you said)......... however my step brother has sort of mixed my oppinion on it........ you see he was married to a woman who was a bitter b*tch... thats all i can really say about her and he ended up cheating and having an adorable baby girl with the other woman..... he emediately told his wife and filed for a divorce once finding this out......... i was inclined from that sittuation to greatly dislike him becuase no matter how messed up his wife was he had been the one who married her......... but the other woman is the sweetest person i have ever met and they are completely in love(not to mention have a little boy now to and he is soooooo cute).......... point is something good actually came from his affair,,,,,,,,,,, i still think its the most idiotic thing my step bro has ever done but i can't blaime him to much............ cheaters suck but some sittuations,,,,,,,,,

Answer 9

Horrible and disgusting? I agree, but it isn't ONLY women. I want to vomit when I see men craning their necks to look at some scantily-clad trash walking by.

Answer 10

I wonder myself why some men/women are like this, but damn you sound a little bitter.