Do you hold grudges; and if so, what was the longest period of time you have held one??
2007-03-03 15:11:15 · 31 answers · asked by rosey 7 in Entertainment & Music ➔ Polls & Surveys
only women hold grudges!
you shouldn't have ate the apple!!!
2007-03-03 15:15:10 · answer #1 · answered by chris j 7 · 1⤊ 0⤋
I wish I could say no, because I really try not to. But yes, I have held grudges before. The longest one I held was 31 years. Believe me there is a good reason.
Truthfully, I wish I could let it go.
2007-03-03 23:17:23 · answer #2 · answered by mrauscher74 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋
I don't hold grudges. I use the thought process of, what goes around comes around. That philosophy has been so true. I should write a book of people who have wronged me and got what they deserved in life. I had no hand in their misfortune. I felt bad. Deep down tho, I thought, serves you right for how you treat others. I try to be a decent person, but sometimes the idiots need a wake up call.
2007-03-03 23:25:24 · answer #3 · answered by hbuckmeister 5 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Yes. I have held one for 16 years, and will continue to hold this grudge till the day I die. The man that I hold it against is dead, but I still hold the grudge. I will NEVER forgive him for raping me when I was 8.
2007-03-03 23:21:41 · answer #4 · answered by sweetgurl13069 6 · 2⤊ 0⤋
I can't hold grudges for long, the longest is probably 3-5 months and that's it,I forget about whatever happened
2007-03-03 23:13:25 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 1⤋
I used to but I grew up and learned that forgiveness is the better way to go.
When I did hold a grudge it lasted about 15 years.
2007-03-03 23:15:18 · answer #6 · answered by elanabutcher 4 · 1⤊ 0⤋
I tend not to but sometimes you just have to. A "friend" of mine betrayed me because I became very good friends with an enemy of his friends. Follow me so far? He went out of his way to poke and pry information out of me about her. I could see where his motives where coming from and didn't give him anything. He stormed off and I haven't seen him since. Really nice for someone who used to call me his brother. Literally. A few years later, he tried to contact me and pretend everything was like it was way back when. I decided to go against my usual manner and hold a grudge. If I never see him again, that would suit me fine. His enemy and I are best friends and I wouldn't trade that for anything.
2007-03-03 23:19:05 · answer #7 · answered by no name brand canned beans 6 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Yes Seven years now and counting. Although I may actually come face to face with this women tommorrw at a breakfast. It's not healthy to hold grudges but this women is a holy terror.
2007-03-03 23:15:38 · answer #8 · answered by revieskid 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋
I usually only hold grudges against my husband. and I will only hold the grudge until he gives me what I want (which is for him to say I am right) that doesn't usually take too long because I hide his controllers for the PS2 until he agrees with me.
2007-03-03 23:14:40 · answer #9 · answered by cmssko 5 · 1⤊ 1⤋
yes I held one for over 8 years and the newest one i'm holding has been going on for over 6.
2007-03-03 23:15:11 · answer #10 · answered by fluttergirl2004 5 · 1⤊ 0⤋