OKay, so i'm a thick chick. 5 ft 3 and pleasanly plump. When I'm in the mirror I cant stand my naked reflection. I have a very pretty face and don't have any trouble getting guys. But keeping them is where I have the problem. When wer'e goin' at it I always want the lights off and have to have some sort of cover over us. They seem to be annoyed by that.
Years ago, I was with this guy who always made me so comfortable that I forgot all about all my insecurities. How do I get back there? And guys does that bother you, or do you not give a f*ck, just as long as your'e gettin' some? Or does it matter whether the girl's skinny or not?
2007-03-03 15:01:28 · 5 answers · asked by Anonymous in Health ➔ Men's Health
Whether or not this bothers a guy is purely an individual choice. You know, the old saying that there is someone for everyone. Also, your description of pleasantly plump is a subjective description, and will mean different things to different people. Personally, I don't mind when a girl takes decent care of herself but has a few extra pounds. When a girl is sloppy and doesn't take any care of herself, and lets the weight spiral out of control, that does bother me. Don't try to get close with guys you know are looking for an extremely petite girl.
Don't be so hard on yourself. There are different body types among both sexes, as well as different preferences. If you tend to be conscious about your weight, eat a fairly healthy diet and do light excercise 3 times per week. If you're honestly taking care of your body, you should always feel good about yourself.
2007-03-03 15:35:31 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 5⤊ 0⤋
Guys like chicks that are a little thick. I've been in the military and I work around guys all the time and I'm telling ya the truth when I say that guys are more attracted to girls that are a little thick than chicks that are skinny or overly skinny. Most girls that I've been with want to have the lights off anyway it's just sexier that way. So no, it doesn't bother us that you want the lights off. Who wants a chick that is way too comfortable with gawking at herself in the mirror anyway? Go ahead and do what is comfortable for you. If guys don't like it then it's obviously their loss!
2007-03-03 17:57:41 · answer #2 · answered by Eric 3 · 3⤊ 0⤋
aren't you gettin' some, surely a guy will try to pleasure himself, with the lights off, under a cover doesn't bother me, thus more seductive
2007-03-03 16:45:36 · answer #3 · answered by Goldfish 4 · 0⤊ 2⤋
if a girl is hot to you then it wouldnt matter you love her and thats it, you just gotta let go of how you feel if a guy is with you then he likes you for you not for something else, it would bother me if i didnt like the chick that much but like i said when i like a chick i like them no matter what
2007-03-03 15:19:27 · answer #4 · answered by james4wbhsbasketball 2 · 2⤊ 0⤋
look around u .... u wont feel lik this anymore...
2007-03-03 15:54:34 · answer #5 · answered by krk 1 · 2⤊ 0⤋