my husband asked me to post this for him...
2007-03-03 14:40:45 · 42 answers · asked by twinzmama 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Marriage & Divorce
You see, tell him, since men don't understand that women don't like to do it, tell him to (do something women wish men would do more). Like, talk about his feelings, be more emotive, give you large stacks of cash, clean the floors, you know, the usual stuff.
2007-03-03 14:45:46 · answer #1 · answered by Ade 6 · 1⤊ 3⤋
I don't really care to perform oral sex, but I enjoy receiving. Ain't that rude????? Well, I discovered it is easier if you think about how incredibly sexy your man is, and how it is so awesome that you can pleasure him. I often will perform in the bathtub so that I can spit....sorry, just being honest. I don't mind it until it gets to that point! I have never been a fan, but I know it is very important to stand on equal ground in this subject. I think that if your man is taking care of you, you should return the favor. What harm will it do? For the few minutes that it takes, it will leave a lasting impression on him and bring you closer. Suck it up and be a woman! ha-ha! no pun intended!!
2007-03-03 15:23:48 · answer #2 · answered by Kimberly 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Why would you ask strangers how your husband can get you to give him more oral sex? Shouldn't you be the one answering this question?
If asking for it is not getting him anywhere, then I guess it's just not going to happen.
However, he's only going to go without for so long, so be prepared for him to get it elsewhere when he gets fed up with your selfish immature attitude about his needs.
And some women wonder why men cheat! It works both ways though. Humans are sexual by nature, and no one is going to go unsatisfied forever.
Good Luck
2007-03-03 19:06:04 · answer #3 · answered by Canadian Girl 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I think your husband has a limp noodle. What I mean is he needs to grow some bigger Kahonas and discuss this with you He should not have asked you to post that kinda question on here. Does he dine at the Y for you ?. Why should you give a b**w j*b if he doese'nt eat you out ?
2007-03-03 19:35:49 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
"Make" is a bad term to use in the first place.There are q's that need to be answered b4 an honest answer would work.
#1) Does SHE enjoy performing oral on you? If not, why?
#2) Do YOU perform oral on her? Does she enjoy it? If not, why?
Are there certan things that each of you do in a heated moment that turns the other off? If so, you have to share those things. After all,,we all want to please our mates, and we need to be satisfied also. Just TALK....You'll be getting so much head you'll think you're cheating...lol.
Just respect each others likes/dislikes, & YOU SHOULD BOTH BE VEEERY FULFILLEDD.
2007-03-03 14:56:23 · answer #5 · answered by lizrdluvnmom 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Well maybe the taste for her isn't as enjoyable as you might think. So ask her opinion on some flavored gels that might enhance things a bit. She may also have a bad gag reflex so don't push her to go deep all the time and let her do some experimenting of her own, you may find out things you both enjoy and didn't even know it.
2007-03-03 14:47:55 · answer #6 · answered by AWRAmale 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
The question is; are you willing to do it? I never liked performing oral sex until I met my bf of 3 years. I figured I care for him a lot, I may as well do it.
If you want to learn, just watch porn movies.
Good luck.
2007-03-03 14:45:59 · answer #7 · answered by roxylee11782 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
wow, I would call that S.O.L. what's wrong? Does she not like that taste? Your pretty much screwed on the oral stuff. Girls either A: love it B: don't mind giving it or C: Hate it. No changing those three. Just pray she's in the first two classes.
Sorry if this disapoints you, but it is true
2007-03-03 14:45:37 · answer #8 · answered by doppelbock23 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You should do it only if you want to! He cant make you do it. Just like he could not of forced you to post this unless he is holding a gun to your head. You need not preform oral on someone who has no balls in the first place!!
2007-03-03 14:45:08 · answer #9 · answered by HOT 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
women are all different so it depends does she do it at all and you just want more? how long have you been married? i know that shouldnt have anything to do with it but sometimes it does, women liked to be turned on and seeing her man sitting on the couch sratching his balls and then asking for it does not do it. get her in the mood by giving her some "oral pleasure'' and then ask, let her know afterwards how much you enjoyed it and how good she is at doing that (women like to hear that) and get her in a routine
2007-03-03 15:00:42 · answer #10 · answered by leigh m 1 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Boy, you are quite understanding, honey. Kudos to you for trying to help.
Girl, if you are too shy or religious to try it, there isn't much to say. Maybe you can put some of your favorite flavor on there to make it easier (unless you like really spicy chipotle). Just be patient with him and ask him for understanding.
2007-03-03 14:45:09 · answer #11 · answered by Your Uncle Dodge! 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋