Me My penis- and my g/f?

Question

hey i am 18 yrs old and i am a virgin, and my girlfriend is not. Now we really want to have sex no doubt. But i have some problems with my foreskin that wasn't taken care of when i was smaller.( i hate my parents for it). see i can pull me skin far back but it is still very sensitive. How do you i get rid of this feeling. And how long will it take for me to be able to have sex with my g/f. PLEASE HELP ASAP

Answer 1

Steve, no surgery is required for this. In fact, you don't even need a doctor to solve this problem. I know it first hand and I got rid of the problem myself, while keeping my foreskin (which I like). Also, don't hate your parents for it, especially if you dad is circumcised.

You really don't have much of a problem (since the foreskin slides back all the way, as you mentioned). What's happening is that the head is used to the moist environment of the foreskin, so when it is touched by anything else, such as a dry finger, it feels very sensitive.

To fix this you just have to get the head used to getting touched. Think of your foreskin as an eyelid protecting the eye. (they're really the same type of part). Just yesterday I answered a guy who got circumcised and said that his head was hurting, and it's for the same reason as this. Do this: when you shower, slide back your foreskin and "cup" water with your hand onto your stomach, then release it so it falls over the head (this is assuming that it hurts for the water to land directly on the head onto the head). Do that for a few days, then gradually start rubbing parts of the head with your finger. Some parts will be less sensitive than others (for example, I always found the rear of the head extremely sensitive). And keep doing that each day; eventually you'll be able to rub most and eventually all the head with no discomfort whatsoever.

Sensitivity is good, since it = pleasure, but you just don't want too much. Your head will still be plenty of sensitive for you to really like, so go ahead and get started. It may take several weeks to a month or two, although you'll notice the difference before then. Good luck man; I went through this a few years ago; and have never had any dislikes ever since. :)

PS. As for sex, you can still have sex. I know that the foreskin rubbing the head does not cause discomfort (again, like an eyelid to an eye compared to a finger to an eye). So she can still give you a handjob, just tell her to slide the foreskin up and down (tell her that right now it's like her clitoral hood covering the clit; it's the same process. In addition, it may not even be all the bad with oral, either, since the mouth is moist; just tell her to keep the teeth off the head, and as for wearing condoms, you can always try to keep the head covered. But trust me, this will work. Contact me if you have any questions. :) Oh, and this was most likely caused due to not washing when you showered when you were little. If you had slid it back regularly this wouldn't have happened.

Answer 2

You didn't ask but I am 67, never been circumcised nor had a sensitive problem.

When I was a boy, my mother had a doc that didn't believe in circumcision. She was taught to pull the skin back whenever I went to pee. After years of that i had developed the habit. Now it stays back and the females are surprised that I am not circumcised.

That may be a little late for you but I suggest that when you do have sex use a condom. It not only protects against STD, PG but would cut down on the pain. It will also make you last longer. Be sure to use lubricant or make sure she is lubricated.

If that doesn't work or even if it does, consult your doctor. I applaud your strength in facing the problem and asking the question. Good luck.

Answer 3

Don't hate your parents they were leaving you as God had made you and with the choice if you want to change it.

The head or glans should be sensitive but it sounds like you are over sensitive. Perhaps with becoming sexual you will get used to it.
Plus in intercourse your foreskin will cover and retract on its own which may be more comfortable for you.

Oral sex I don't know try it and see.

Answer 4

Talk with a doctor about it. Especially if you mean painful when you say sensitive.. You may be able to put just the tiniest drop of tooth numbing jell (What you put on baby's gums when they're teething)right where it hurts until the situation improves., but best to talk to a doc

Answer 5

Well the whole reason for the Fore skin it to protect the head and make it more sexually sensitive, sounds like it's doing the job.
Don't complain, your Dad did you a favor

Answer 6

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haha at weenie reference from person above.

hey man, you can't do anything physically at this point but give it a shot, right? if there are problems at that point, work it out with your g/f. give it a try and see what's what before starting to freak out though or you won't know if you've been torturing yourself for nothing or not.

Answer 7

It's supposed to be super sensitive. That's why the little hoodie was created. More tingle in the bingle when you're ringing her bell.

Answer 8

Can't hate your parents for it anymore because you are now 18 and you can get it fixed yourself. So stop whining and make an appointment to see the doctor.

Answer 9

i really dont kno what u mean about that skin thing but.... this might sound kinda overwelming but how about u "fill her pleasures"...basically have oral sex with her and eat her out. if your skin is good... let her then suck u. so this way u can still have pleasure. try sex toys too. you can still have fun! but still see a doctor tho

Answer 10

It will take about a week if you are a fast healer(To remove the foreskin) You can have the job done now as out patient surgery.