i was wondering who could be the dad of this baby im carring.i had my period on sep1 2006.i slept with the guy #1 on the 15th and then with guy #2 on the 16th.i know its not something im proud of but it happened.my due date is the 8th of june they say i concived on the 15th of sep.so do you think its guy #1?or two?please give me your thoughts on this.
2007-03-03 14:12:56 · 15 answers · asked by lynn 1 in Pregnancy & Parenting ➔ Pregnancy
It could be either if you slept with them that close together. You will more than likely have to wait till the baby is born and then have the potential dads take a paternity test. Good Luck and remember your baby comes first!
2007-03-03 14:17:17 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
AS the others have said there is no way to prove paternity based on your dates.
I beleive the only sure way is to have a paternity test done. Paternity can also be proven before baby is born by doing a CVS (chorio villionic sampling) which must be done between 10 and 12 weeks. I am not sure about amniocentesis which is done betwene 16 and 20 weeks I believe.
You could ask your Doctor/ Gynachologist, and he/she will tell you if paternity can be proven with this test.
2007-03-04 01:28:22 · answer #2 · answered by schmoo_withazing 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Wow, you slept with two men....two days in a row without using protection! Now, that was smart, huh!? Hopefully, the only thing you got from that was a baby. Have you never heard of STD's or HIV? You'll just have to wait until the baby is born then get a DNA test.
2007-03-03 23:28:33 · answer #3 · answered by Jen 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Either one of them could be the father. They cannot guess the exact date of conception. That is why the due date is based off the the first day of your LMP. You are just going to have to woman up and tell them and get a DNA test.
Let this be a lesson to you.
2007-03-03 22:17:52 · answer #4 · answered by hollilynn 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Could be either they are a day apart. That was the least smart thing you could have done. Does not seem like you are ready for a baby. All you can do now and is have both take a DNA test when the baby is born.
2007-03-03 22:17:10 · answer #5 · answered by J&A 3 · 1⤊ 1⤋
in all honesty both guys have equal chance of being the father. I recomend keeping your legs closed for a few years after your baby is born. Sleeping around can only get you in trouble in one way or another. You spelt with 2 different guys in the same length of time, it soulds like you don't really have feelings for either guy.
2007-03-04 00:31:22 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
unfortunately u r not going to be absolutely sure until the baby is born and u get a paternity test. good luck. u r not a bad person. u r human and u would be surprised how many people r actually in ur exact same situation. hold ur head high and just wait. give thanks that u r going to have a beautiful baby soon!!!
2007-03-03 22:19:16 · answer #7 · answered by want a princess baby 4 · 1⤊ 0⤋
The two dates are so close. There is NO way of telling, before the baby is born, who's it is. NO WAY, because the sex days are next to eachother. Date of conception is just an estimate, so you can't go off of that. Sorry girl, I feel for you.
2007-03-03 22:17:10 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Due dates are not an exact science. They are an estimate based on when you say your last menstrual cycle began. That's it.
Two words: paternity test.
2007-03-03 22:16:06 · answer #9 · answered by Luann 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
it is hard to say because sperm is alive and kicking for 72 hours so it could be guy number one there is just no way to tell i will say you have to tell them both and don't wait be honest upfront because it will cause a lot of problems in the long run
2007-03-03 22:19:08 · answer #10 · answered by third times a charm 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋