2007-03-03 14:07:24 · 11 answers · asked by Bethany P 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Marriage & Divorce
You might want to check with HIM to see what he wants when he gets home. Does he want every family member and friend greeting him? Or does he just want it to be you and him. I have gone through 2 homecomings with my husband. The only thing he wants is me and a good meal. No hoopla, no balloons and relatives....just some quiet time alone. There is plenty of time to say hello to the others. And that is what many of the soldiers that I know want...to be left alone and allowed to get used to being home again.
All that to say....talk to him.
2007-03-03 14:44:41 · answer #1 · answered by an88mikewife 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I would fix his favorite meal with candles lit, then run him a nice bath so he can relax. Then while he's in the tub slip into something sexy and wait till he comes out..... then what ever else happens after that. My husband is coming back from Iraq in bout 5 or 6 months and that what I have planned for him.
2007-03-03 14:13:33 · answer #2 · answered by Lisa H 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Well if you can afford it, I would give him a Welcome Home party. Invite family and friends, especially some of his buddies. Enlist family and friends to make some food, order a lovely Welcome Home cake, have some beer and wine and soda and it will be fabulous. If your place is too small to accomodate all those people, then ask family if anyone would volunteer their home or backyard if you live in a warm climate. I can recommend one more thing, due to the fact that he is a Veteran, go to the VFW Hall or the American Legion in your town and ask if you could rent out their facility for a modest price. They may just do it for you. Best of Luck and much happiness to you and your husband.
2007-03-03 14:21:37 · answer #3 · answered by cardgirl2 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Get him a massage. Make a real special dinner for the two of you.Light some candles, rent a good movie and just let the evening happen. He`ll be so pleased to be home and with his wife. You are a good women to stand behind your man while serving our country. God bless you both.
2007-03-03 14:15:37 · answer #4 · answered by Missy C 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
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2016-10-17 05:20:26 · answer #5 · answered by ? 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If you don't have any kids, book a hotel somewhere where you can be alone. If you have kids, then give them a week together and then kidnap him somewhere. If there's family and friends involved, then have a welcome home party, and then take him away somwhere for a least a long weekend. Get the drift here?
2007-03-07 06:15:36 · answer #6 · answered by ? 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Plan a vacation to his favorite spot...plan all the details don't let him think about a thing. He will enjoy that you focused so hard on him and his happiness.
2007-03-03 14:12:41 · answer #7 · answered by St.Jeb 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
patience, patience, patience
He'll probably want more sex than you do. I'd be special if you let him have it.
Tell him "we need a new car."
Don't have a long list on honey-do's to over whelm him.
Give him time and space to adjust.
2007-03-03 14:11:47 · answer #8 · answered by mt_hopper 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
weLL, you gotta invite all your relatives...something like a reunion coz for sure he misses the whole family and relatives....
2007-03-03 14:11:13 · answer #9 · answered by harveyalanco2005 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
It won't matter what you do for him. Anything will be special to him.
2007-03-03 14:17:22 · answer #10 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋