When im hanging out with my boyfriend and i have my period. He wants to grind or fool around. And when you have your period its the last thing you feel like doing. What should i do? I stoped him one time and he tryed to bring up the subject of me having my period but seemed kinda embarrassed. I didnt think he would act that way since hes 18, 3 years older then me and has had many girlfriends before. What have you done in the past? How would you deal with this situation?
Any answer is appreciated.
2007-03-03 14:03:41 · 7 answers · asked by Anonymous in Health ➔ Women's Health
just because he has had girlfriends before doesn't mean he knows everything. he's still young and might be embarassed cause he doesn't know anything about it or what he does know might be wrong info. how long have you been going out? you should be able to talk to him about your period, if you can;t talk about it you shouldn't be fooling around, cause if you get pregnant, there will be more embarassing issues than periods to deal with!!
2007-03-03 14:09:23 · answer #1 · answered by Bio-student Again(aka nursegirl) 4 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Just tell him you're out of commission for the week. You don't have to say "period" and make him all upset, but he'll get it and that should be the end of it. As a sidebar, be careful doing anything with him no matter what time of the month it is. I'm not against relationships with an age gap (my last boyfriend was almost 5 years older than I am) but right now you're jail bait and you can both get into a lot of trouble if you get caught messing around, and it doesn't matter whether you consented or not, your parents can still choose to press statutory rape charges. I'm 19, so it was a bit different for me. Hope this helped you, and have fun anyway, no matter what "old ladies" like me tell you!
2007-03-03 17:31:17 · answer #2 · answered by Cat Loves Her Sabres 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
My boyfriend is also three years older then me. Whenever that happens I just tell him I can't and he gets what that means. He'll still try to fool around a little but if i'm not in the mood to do that then i just tell him. He knows me well so he knows whats going to happen but he tries anyways. Just tell him that you don't want to talk about it but to just lay off. If he doesn't then just say why can't you just spend time with me without all that stuff. All that is important too. Just tell him that
2007-03-03 14:15:11 · answer #3 · answered by Ash834 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
well if hes embarrassed, thats natural. he doesnt know anything about it.. even if hes 18 doesnt mean he knows everything....and doesnt mean he will like discussing his girlfriends period with her. to me it shouldnt be that big of deal, just tell him that u cant because its ur menstrual. and he should get it by then. if he doesn't stop....then i guess u would be mad at him which u should....cuz he needs to know when u say stop, u mean it.
2007-03-03 14:29:14 · answer #4 · answered by Teenager 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Wow!! he's way too old for you, jus think, 3 years mean he has 3x as much experience, and 3x as many partners, which mean yur chance of catching somthing are 3x higher, than someone his age...
2007-03-03 14:10:28 · answer #5 · answered by SmoothePlaya 1 · 2⤊ 0⤋
a 15 year old has no business dating/having sex with a 18 year old
2007-03-03 14:06:51 · answer #6 · answered by Mopar Muscle Gal 7 · 2⤊ 1⤋
Tell him to leave you alone or youll have him arrested for statutory rape.
2007-03-03 14:07:44 · answer #7 · answered by birdie 6 · 3⤊ 1⤋