I feel like the loneliest person!!?

Question

I learned today that my "friends" have been trash talking me for a while.....but they were the ones that told me I dont need friends that talk about me behind my back. I also learned they're the ones that spread malicious rumors about me.

I feel like the lonliest person because they're the ones I went to when I had problems, and they're the ones that "was there for me"....All I have now are my family.

When will I find friends that wont ever backstab me?

Answer 1

They were right, you dont need friends that talk about u behind ur back, that shows they arnt really your friends. You deserve so much better!

I understand how u feel. Thats the difference I guess. Family will always be there. Thats something u can really count on. Friends will come ur way. They should like you for who you are & not try to change you.

You'll meet different kinds of people in life. The loyal ones, the backstabbing ones & etc. You might not know their true colours till later on. But better late den never right? Just dont worry so much abt it.

You could maybe start off by making friends at church :) Dont worry abt not having friends. All of them come & go. Stay strong :)

Answer 2

you do not need that kind of friends around you. They just pretend to be and they are not sincere nor discreet. Who needs that kind of "trash" in his life? Sometimes we do make mistakes, we misjudge people thinking they are friends while they are not; so you are at a time in your life when you need to do a good clean-up in the kind of people around you. It also means that you are becoming more aware of what is good and what is not for you. Having your family is such a blessing at times like that! You are learning to be more mature and should be proud of it! You are also gaining some wisdom though your experiences. You should not feel like the loneliest person, because you are not! We are what we believe we are! Think about the logic of this! You have learned through their behavior and it is time to move in another direction. Turn the page as the saying goes! Go about your business being the best person you can be and you will see all the "snakes" dissappear ! I've been there; so I understand!

Love yourself enough not to lower yourself to their level. You do not need to look for friends... friends come into your life. They are gifts and they are there when the time is right. When something like that happens; it is a life's lesson. It does not mean that all new friends will backstab you. Leave a space in your heart for the new and get rid of the trash.

Best of luck to you. Remember; you deserve to be happy! And you have a choice!
GBY

Answer 3

Sounds like you are young. You do not need people in your life like that. One friend that is a good friend is worth 100. Ignore their ignorance and one day a good friend will come into your life and the others at that time will have trashed one another over and over again. You will be the winner.

Answer 4

People come and go in your life, but family is forever. You'll come into new friends-better friends. Take advantage of this to spend more time with your family. I know it sucks, but it gets better!

Answer 5

If your friends did this to you, they are not worth the effort, right? Focus on your strengths, and the friends who come in your life will be worthy of being your friend.

Answer 6

ok well in life their will be always a "friend" that is a backstabber you just need to find the friend that is the best to you you might feel lonely now but wait till you find that really goodfriend of yours who will be your friend and you can tell everything to. it might seem liek forever to find that person but really i bet you already met that person