Hey my dad was cheating on my mom and might still be! Im an only child and Im scared he's going to leave me!

Question

Tell me what I should do!

Answer 1

tell him you know and that you wish he would stop hurting you and your mom.you won't believe this but it just might work.he won't want to disappoint you.

Answer 2

You dont say how old you are.Can you talk to your mum or dad.Or a close relative,sum1 you trust & know well.The best people to explain things 2 u r ur mum or dad.If not try not 2 worry.Couples go through all sorts of major setbacks & get through it & hav a stronger relationship for it.It depends on how much they love each other.If theyre meant 2 b threy'l b able 2 work it out.Try not 2 worry,they'l work it out whats best 4 them & that can only make evry1 involved happier in the long run.Try talking 2 1 or both of them if u can,thats ur best way of getting the reassurance u need.They probably dont know how worried u r.

Answer 3

You should go to your dad and tell him how he is leaving you feeling- he has no right to terrorise you with his actions so if he knows you know and knows how you feel he is being bang out of order.

If your dad isnt listning or you dont feel able to tlk to him, you must try talking to someone else- maybe someone who can tell him how you are feeling, you may think he is going to be angry at you but as parents go, the mojority if not all have a big protection aura around their children- they dont like to see anything harm or hurt you or for you to suffer. If he knew this was making you feel so bad or so worried, he is likely to change.

If anything happens- the worst in your mind being they split up because of this- then please try not to worry about not seeing him again- when I was growing up my parents used to argue over everytnihg, until I was 11 they stayed to gether for me and my sister. It was only when the actually got divorced that I realised how horrible it was to live under a constant shadow of fear that something bad was going to happen,

The irony was when they got their divorce (the papers came through on my 13th birthday) it was no big deal- infact as the law stated there should be a joint custody- despite my father saying "its her or me" (the courts ask the children not the parents), the fact we had almost parent time-tables meant more quality time, not arguements to be terrified of and no constant dread that they would split up and I would never see one of them again.

I think you should try talk this through with another adult- try childline (the samaritans number is 0845 90 90 90 and they can give you the number unless you wanna talk to them, calls are charged at national rate but childlines numbers are free and I dont think they even show up on the phone bill- you can also email them.) or a friendly teacher, an aunt/....anyone who will give you time, and you can trust. If you are really stuck I would say childline who can put you intouch with someone confidentially- so your what you say stays behind the door- not blagged to mum and dad unless you need it to be.

But please talk to someone- I say this because I think you are worring needlessly.

Answer 4

no longer all adult men view porn. people who do often have sexual issues in case you recognize what I mean. Lusting after yet another woman different than your man or woman is emotional and psychological abuse in the direction of your woman whether she is acquainted with it or no longer. i could advise which you ask your Dad why he is going on porn sites and tell him that it bothers you and which you will desire that he would not. If he tells you that's none of your corporation, then permit your mom understand what you have chanced on approximately Dad. i think of that's her corporation.

Answer 5

I thin you should tell your mom what he did, but then again you don't want him to leave and your mom might kick him out so that's a very hard question but personally i think you should tell your mom.

Jewel T

Answer 6

hi honey, you poor thing, i really don't know what to say but i thought i would give you the respect of a reply. this is a hard one to answer, if you do find out for sure that you're dad is cheating then you have to do what you think is right, maybe keep it's to urself and hope that it will pass or think maybe mom deserves better and tell her, because at the end of the day you are going to grow up and get a life of ur own and hopfully be happy, your're dad is always going to be you're dad even if he lives with you or not, but its not nice if you're mum is thinking that everything is ok when actually its not. sorry if this does'nt help, but you are welcome to email me if you want to talk more. take care hun.xxxx and for the idiots who put a thumbs down, thats just what you are IDIOTS!! wake up and smell the coffee!!!!!!!!!!

Answer 7

leave it to your mum and dad love,its for them to sort and if it doesnt go the way you wish hes still your dad and you will get to see him plenty it will be quality time without mum and dad arguing.No way does a dad fall out of love for his little girl,that love is a totally different love he'll be there for you you just try and stop him kid xxxxx

Answer 8

That happened to me and he did leave. It was difficult, but my mum was better off in the end. The main thing is he would not be leaving you, so don't think of it that way.

Answer 9

theres nothing you can do. its not your fault or responsibility to fix things.

all you can do is talk to your parents and voice your concerns. tell them that your scared of them leaving you. they will reassure you that no matter what happens, they will always be there for you

Answer 10

let your pent up emotions fly