Me and my girl of 7 years have had a great relationship.. well just recently she's needed help from a guy I don't like.. she was hiding calls, text messages, and emails from me... Everytime I confront her she denies it. She says I will "call him, and act like your not here, and ask him about it... he might think I am psycho and it will ruin my chances getting on the job but I'll do it.." Thats what she said she would do if needed. Basically, with me there, she'd call him and act like I wasn't there and try to bring it up. She will say, "what do you think happened?" or "for me to have sex with someone, there has to be some feelings there."
This went on for about 2 weeks but things seem ok now.
Basically, my question, do you think she's guilty or not? COULD they have done something, or maybe not? What do yall think based on this?
2007-03-03 13:35:17 · 11 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Marriage & Divorce
Man you are paranoid and if you continue to behave like that you will push her away for good - not because she is unfaithful but because you are so insecure.
2007-03-03 13:38:53 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 1⤋
Well I think you know the answer. Why would she hide text messages, emails and calls? Her behavior is pretty shady.
Make her explain the lies. If she can't, you know where you stand. It's hard to think your girl of 7 years could act this way, but why else would she be hiding stuff? Get to the bottom of it. Good luck!
2007-03-03 21:40:02 · answer #2 · answered by katydid 7 · 0⤊ 1⤋
She's being the a sneaky woman and its very typical. I would not trust her. Through a series of clever Q&A you can root out the truth. Her answers will betray her when she slips up
With these methods, I have gotten the women here on yahoo answers to slip and reaveal the truth about thier nature.
2007-03-03 21:47:33 · answer #3 · answered by Joe B 2 · 0⤊ 1⤋
First off, you need to check out your relationship. Are there things your girlfriend needs that she isn't getting from you? If there are, make the corrections, talk to her about it, etc. Don't attack the other guy because that will just drive her further away. She may "need his help" because she isn't getting something she wants from you. She will come back to you before it's too late if you make the changes.
2007-03-03 21:41:33 · answer #4 · answered by Shelley 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Her behavior is disrespectful to you and a solid start toward more misbehaving. She is displaying complex manipulation methods. She could be bored and trying to make room for a bigger, more dangerous scheme. Where there is smoke, there is fire! Be more careful. When feelings of suspicion negate a formerly positive relationship, the damage is already done.
2007-03-03 21:48:09 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 1⤋
Man...she's not to be trusted. Even tho its gonna be hard...let her go. (end it) If a person betrays yuor trust..or doesnt earn it. There's no way you can ever trust her! Women are worse than men when they do cheat!
2007-03-03 22:34:03 · answer #6 · answered by 69 . 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
man, I sure hate to say in case I'm wrong that wouldn't be fair to her. But it just sounds a little fishy, why was wverything so secret if there was nothing to hide.
2007-03-03 21:41:24 · answer #7 · answered by *queenfairy1*Antioch California 7 · 0⤊ 1⤋
hire a P.I. to answer those questions, rather than guessing. You could get STD's, what if she came up pregnant, think those questions would come up then? if nothing else buy a voice activated tape recorder
2007-03-03 21:40:17 · answer #8 · answered by walker9842 4 · 0⤊ 1⤋
Communication is the key. Tell her how you feel .....seems like she's pulling the wool over your eyes.
2007-03-03 21:39:35 · answer #9 · answered by SassySista 2 · 0⤊ 1⤋
Truth can be painful so its best not to know. So long as she returns to you, move on.
2007-03-03 21:38:06 · answer #10 · answered by SGElite 7 · 0⤊ 1⤋