ok here goes.... my best friend just got a new girlfriend and im so happy and ive given him advice & i think it's brought us closer as friends...but for so long i've only seen him with me and at the ice rink friday they were holding hands (like i had advised him to do) and i almost started crying (cuz i was jealous) and i could barely even watch.... later that night i started crying and it felt good to let it out but come monday and schoolit'll b hard cuz they'll b closer too.... also they've been hugging alot and usually im the only girl he hugs and i havent hugged him in like a month... what do i do know? =[[
2007-03-03 13:23:29 · 16 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Friends
Well there is nothing you can really do now but be his friend, it is ok to be hurt. Maybe when he is not dating that other girl you should tell him you like him and see if he likes you as well. Also try hanging out with other friends and keep busy with school and be happy for him, after all you were the one who gave him advice. It could also be that you friend is not there as much as you would like.
2007-03-03 13:28:54 · answer #1 · answered by xyz 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Awwww sweetie, I am sorry you are hurting over this. You are obviously a very good friend to have given him advice when inside you really have some feelings for him. I think that unfortunately you are going to have to just let this play out how it is going to go. You will need to hold those feelings close to your chest and be the friend you have been. If at some point things do not work out in his relationship, you may want to let him know your feelings, but for now...unfortunately...this is probably going to hurt a bit. Try to be happy for him, and maybe just maybe you will be able to move on in your heart and find someone to care about you like you care about him.
2007-03-03 13:29:42 · answer #2 · answered by kalea_kane 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
This is a great opportunity to observe how he behaves in a relationship. It's going to be hard on you, but it's the best advice I could give you in hindsight of my situations. Besides, there are possibilities that you haven't mentioned: what if he likes you and is playing this game to get you to tell him before he is secure enough to tell you? What if he doesn't like you in that way? It could be the reason you guys are just friends.
2007-03-03 13:36:56 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
I'm sorry you're sad. [insert hug here] I've been in this kind of situation before. The next time you get to talk to him, you could ask him to hang out with you one night (as friends) and then possibly let him know that you like him. Hope this helps you out!
2007-03-03 13:31:51 · answer #4 · answered by hopeful678 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
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2016-09-30 04:10:13 · answer #5 · answered by ? 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Tell him you like him. Maybe he likes you too and never told you about it because he was afraid. Or if you're 100% sure that he doesn't like you just allow yourself to have your feelings. Cry it out, feel the pain. It'll be okay. You'll find the right person for you one day too.
2007-03-03 13:29:00 · answer #6 · answered by leelee53 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
He is your friend, you should be happy for him. It is really hard to be, but you have to. Also this might sound a little wrong but 'its not gunna last forever', and if you really do like him, then tell him. Other wise you will never know what could've happened between you guys. GOOD LUCK! :-)
2007-03-03 13:30:23 · answer #7 · answered by allie_cat_andry 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
well, you have to let them know how you feel. i have this quote "hearts are often broken with words left unspoken" and evern tho it may not work out for you... you will feel a lot better knowing that you told him and he knows. He might even feel the same way about you, hes just to shy to tell you so he went for someone else... sry u had to go thought this also
2007-03-03 13:33:00 · answer #8 · answered by littlegreekgirl 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
well sounds like to me that you secretly like him and maybe that is where your jealousy is coming from or could just because you miss hanging with him so often...all I can say is if it is a crush situation you can either one tell him how you feel or two step back and see where his relationship goes with this new girlfriend...either way you need to tell him how you feel and be open & honest he will appreciate it alot more
2007-03-03 13:29:54 · answer #9 · answered by Ashton 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You should play it kind of casual! But don't advise him to get closer to his girlfriend! Also, just try to hang out with him that's it.
2007-03-03 13:31:22 · answer #10 · answered by Roxygirl 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋