If i have sex with her should i take precautions or just kiss and cuddle her?
2007-03-03 13:15:55 · 20 answers · asked by colin050659 6 in Family & Relationships ➔ Marriage & Divorce
Take precautions if you dont trust her,You need 2 talk2 her.If you dont normaly use condoms shes going 2 want 2 know why anyway.If she has slept with some1 else do u want 2 sleep with her anymore?You need 2 sort this out properly & find out 1 way or another & then move forward in ur relationship-or not-as the case may b.Taking precautions is just a small part of the issue.Theres a much biger picture,imaterial of if she has or hasnt.
2007-03-03 13:23:52 · answer #1 · answered by Poppypunto 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If I was you and you have not used precautions I would go to a clinic and get myself checked out. Also I think you should approach her about this take your time and tell her how you feel, honesty is the best possibility. You may be worrying about something that hasn't happened, so speak your mind and tell her.
If she really loves you and hasn't been cheating on you, ask her to go and get herself checked out at a clinic if she wont then I think you are right and she has been playing around.
So good luck hope it turns out alright for you.
2007-03-03 20:01:42 · answer #2 · answered by christine c 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If I felt that my patner had cheated on me I would not want to be near them let alone have sex and definatley not want to kiss and cuddle. Get the cheating issue out in the open and move on from there.
2007-03-03 19:17:28 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Why would you want to kiss, let alone have sex with someone, whom you suspect of cheating? Common sense says wear a condom but that's not the issue -- trust is. All you're saying to her (if she is indeed cheating) is that she can have her cake and eat it too and you're not the wiser! There's no need to stop. But, hey, if you can separate the trust issue from your sexual needs then you're a better person than me.
2007-03-03 13:44:03 · answer #4 · answered by ladylee1230 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Make sure you put on your jimmy cap. And after you do her, ask her, "Hey you, I notice you aren't as perky and full of energy as usual. Anything the matter?"
You gotta root out the truth with a series of Q & A. Her answers will eventually betray her and the truth will become evident.
How do I know? I've used this technique to uncover the truth behind women here on yahoo answers.
Feel free to review my Q & A for ideas.
2007-03-03 13:25:35 · answer #5 · answered by Joe B 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Well, if you still want to be with her, take precautions. Personally I would be looking to end things.
2007-03-03 13:19:17 · answer #6 · answered by kalea_kane 6 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Um....take precautions of course. Unless you want to sleep with whoever she was sleeping with...
2007-03-03 13:58:48 · answer #7 · answered by 1978girl 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You need to figure out why you think she's cheated on you. Then you need to figure out is she still cheating. Hire a P.I. and lastly don't be a fool wrap your tool
2007-03-03 13:36:40 · answer #8 · answered by walker9842 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
if your partner has been cheating on you why would you want to do anything with them.. doormat is an appropriate term here.
2007-03-03 13:25:12 · answer #9 · answered by simplyme 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
always take procaution. if you really think she's cheating be honest with yourself and ask her. if she gets way out of line chances are she is.
2007-03-03 13:24:36 · answer #10 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋