im 15.5 and my friend want me to go to a rave party?

Question

i dont know what is the deal w those i know that theyre loud and i dont like loud but if they really raelly want me to (which tey do) i mite go jnce for htem but wats the deal i know theres more thatn i no since im not an xperienced rave-er

Answer 1

if I'm reading right through the misspelled words, it says you might go once for the, hmmm...it sounds ike your brain is telling you not to go. So there's your answer, stay good and clean and stay home or go to the movies with some friends.

Answer 2

LOL....yes because there are drugs you should weigh your decision of course. But who says that just because there are drugs there you are going to do them? I was a hardcore raver for many many years and while I did fall into the drug trap I knew many and still know many straight edge ravers. The biggest thing I see in your post is that you do not like loud, raves are extremely loud, extremely. If you do not like loud music DO NOT GO.

If my daughter went to a rave I would trust that she would stay away from the drugs, and go because its actually a great community of people who care very deeply. Anyone who has not been steeped in the rave culture would have NO idea what I am talking about, it is more than a bunch of idiotic, drugged out, loser kids who are out of control. Its an insult to those who take the way of life seriously to generalize like that, most of those who do generalize like that would never think to do so when it comes to someone of another race, would you?

Answer 3

I'm 14 and go to raves sometimes. they're a lot of fun and yeah there's a lot of drugs but you can avoid them if you don't want them. Wear colorful clothes and jewelry (glowing, sparkling, and edible), be prepared to dance (jump really), and dont be afraid of physical contact with people you don't know. They are really really loud. So if that truly bothers you, don't go. Don't take strange pills. Don't drink anything that anyone else had access to. Have some cash and make sure you have a sober way home. Do all that and you'll be golden, have a great time.

Answer 4

have you or your friend ever been to one?? i'm not a raver, but I have heard from friends...it's not something you want to be getting into at 15 and a half. They are loud, there's lots of music and lights, drinking and drugs. they take tons of time, money, and secrecy to plan, since there's typically drugs involved. do you really wanna be there when the police come in?? you could be taken to the station, and have to call your parent/guardian--SO embarassing and they'll never trust you again, besides the fact that it's really not that safe or fun. many young women get drugged by older pervs and any number of terrible things can happen. honestly, ask your parents what they think...they'll be SHOCKED you asked, and will trust you 100% more since you're showing them you value their opinions. Hope that helps!! good luck girly!

Answer 5

Do not go. Just stay home and watch some movies or something. I know you'll probably feel bad for not going but al least you will be doing the right thing. If you get caught by your parents your relationship with them will be down the drain. tyhe trust between you and them will be gone.
So think before you act.
And if you do decide to go (hopefully you don't)dont drink anything or eat anything at all! There will probably be spiked drinks and drugs.

Answer 6

raves are full of drugs... if your not already into the party scene this will be an overload to experience all at once. i know i wasn't at 15, and it wasn't that long ago. kids just keep getting younger and younger with sex and drugs. if you are okay with what could happen then go once for your friends, but if you dont want to risk your safety of being over exposed dont. your too young to start making mistakes that you'll have to pay for later.

Answer 7

ok smirnoff ice is great cos theirs no longer lots alcohol in it, and it includes vodka which doesnt smell, making it extra trouble-free to cover from ur mum If u dont prefer to get too decrease than the impact of alcohol, drink a lot of water and consume loooads. Take a paracetamol so u dont get a hangover. i understand its poor giving u suggestion in this, yet i'm a similar, im under no circumstances undesirable apart from the occasional occasion like two times a 300 and sixty 5 days.

Answer 8

a rave party for a 15 year old is no where youneed to be, there is nothing but junkies that go and people are out of control. If your parents knew that you were there they would not be happy at all. You need to tell your friend that you are not going

Answer 9

Umm well if I were you I would not go. This sounds like a big loud party and trust me they get caught by the cops so easily. And then you could be arrested because if it is a teen party then duh there is going to be alcohol and drugs. If you want to party you have to do it in small groups like of 6 or something and then you won't get caught if you are planning to drink that is.

Answer 10

dont let ur friends tell u wat to do.. if u dont wanna go dont go... just tell them that u dont wanna go and they say come on or make fun of u thats showing u that there not a real friend .... at the rave partied ppl do stuipd things hunny i sugest not to go or maybe even talk to ur mom or someone that u can trust...... wait till ur older and if u wanna go out then thats fine but right now i wouldnt the guys there are very nutts thats the nice way im gonna put it.... good luck

Answer 11

if i were you i would not go. i knew someone who on her 18th birthday went to her first rave. i don't remember what was slipped into one of her drinks but she did die. im not trying to scare you but those are really not a safe place for a 15 yo. im 15 now and id never go to one. to much drugs. and all you hear is "are you rolling, i am!" but if you do go don't do any drugs and don't take drinks from other people.