a have this friend the thing is that we are fighting a lot lately, i feel there is something weird in our relationship and for that reason we are falling apart and i dont wanna lose him but i dont know what is happening i need an advice please
2007-03-03 12:52:03 · 8 answers · asked by Talis 4 in Family & Relationships ➔ Friends
Ask him what the problem is. Don't be defensive. Be open to hearing things that you may not like or want to hear. You might be the problem (if you said something or did something to make him upset) Or you might not be the problem ( he could be going though some personal issues and cannot talk about it )
2007-03-03 12:56:56 · answer #1 · answered by Sasha 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
What's going on you ask? Well, what's going on is you have this friend. The thing is that are fight a lot lately. You feel there is something weird in your relationship and for that reason you are falling apart and you don't want lose him. That's what's happening
2007-03-03 20:57:03 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
things could be getting to serious and hes afraid of a permanet relationship if hes doing a lot of fighting and arguing hang loose for a while and give him some space he needs time to get his head straight p.s. dont let him pull you down stay strong good luck
2007-03-03 21:01:20 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Just talk to him. Get him to open up to you and let him know that you want to make sure that your friendship is still strong and intact. That you don't want to let him go as a friend. If you are in the middle of a fight, apologize (if it's your fault) if it's only partially let him know that it wasn't completely your fault and ask him if you two can talk about it. If he gets mad while you are talking don't loose your cool, just let him know that you really do care about your guys' friendship
2007-03-03 21:00:59 · answer #4 · answered by SarangHaeyo 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
well you should talk to him, and see whats on his mind exactly. try to spot the problem. And maybe give both of yourselves some time away. I garentee after a little time away he will miss you more. but don't tell him your taking time away, just do it calmly. leave him with a neutral feeling. and when you do go back, tell him that you missed him and explain in a nice sweetly manner how you feel about him.
2007-03-03 21:00:19 · answer #5 · answered by supergirl07 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
ha girl friend drop him because if he's going like weird on you now what in the future for you , and i would say he's doing one or even more on the side so go find one that is true blue to you
2007-03-03 20:58:00 · answer #6 · answered by del b 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
my advice is to sit down and talk to him and see what he's feeling, what's going on with him - what his thoughts are - maybe its nothing to do with you - maybe something is just bothering him. good luck - hope all goes well
2007-03-03 20:56:34 · answer #7 · answered by kd baby 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
is he your friend or boyfriend?
2007-03-03 20:55:59 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋