Who want to marry and settle with one girl?
I am soo tired of guys. I am a hot girl - and I dont give it up, yes I like sex.
But the guys that show interest in me, like me but go and screw other people.
Now I know these men are not worth my time. I am tired of weeding through all of these idiots.
But, DO good men exist? Do good men want good girls?
Yeah I knew what men want, but are they any real ones left?
2007-03-03 12:25:02 · 14 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Marriage & Divorce
.Mai, please do not take this the wrong way, but you need to go back to school, take some night classes at your local Jr. college, the better educated you are, you will meet a higher quality of men. Only low life jerks, "screw around", well educated men want a well spoken,educated, refined lady , who is a "good girl". p.s. it should be written as are there any good men left , not their. Are they any real ones left? yes, but the question is "are there any real men left". Not trying to be witchy , just thought you should know you can do better, and some proper grammer would help. The best to you.
2007-03-03 12:44:59 · answer #1 · answered by Kimberly H 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I really dont understand women's attitudes where sex is concerned. Its a wonderful experience and should feel good for both partners. Why is it that when a man has sex with a woman thats all they want. Sex is part of love...it is part of having a strong relationship. Sex is just the end result of loving someone....it is about the closest two people can get. Im not saying have sex with as many men as you can. I am saying get rid of that attitude...dont take it into marriage because you will be a person who will use sex as a tool to punish their husband. Sex is not a tool.....sex is part of a good healthy relationship. We all have to weed through the men in our lives, it is part of knowing what makes us trully happy. Keep on weeding and one day you will find a guy you connect with totally.....who you will want to have an intimate relationship with. If you dont want to have sex with the guys you are talking about, then its obvious you havent made a real connection with any of them. You will one day....you will meet the "one".
2007-03-03 20:36:00 · answer #2 · answered by rightio 6 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Yes there are good men out here. The bible says a man that finds a wife finds a good thing. Stop[ looking for that man and let him find you. Until then have fun and enjoy life. You do not need a man to have fun with.
I have a great man who found me but it to almost 2 years for my prayers to be answered. I did not settle either. Wish you well.
2007-03-03 20:40:18 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
I can only speak for myself.I find all sorts of women attractive some more than others but I realize the fact that there is more to a person than looks.I have not cheated on my girl even when everyone around me including her gave me plenty of reasons to.Many men foolishly allow themselves to be put in situations that put there relationships in jeapordy.Women do the same thing and so people like us find ourselves in pain because the person that we gave so much can't understand how to love and be true;until it's too late....redwabbitred@yahoo.com
2007-03-03 20:49:26 · answer #4 · answered by strongstorm89 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Yes, there are a few good men out there. The problem is, the good ones are usually not that hot looking. Ugly guys, like me, don't take women for granted. We are appreicative of any attention we get from a woman where as hot looking guys have women lining up to be with them. So they take them for granted. They know there are always more. You might try getting to know some guys who by first appearance arn't that attractive to you. Who knows, you might find one of us nice guys underneath the ugly. I wish you luck
2007-03-03 23:48:29 · answer #5 · answered by alanpvr 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Sorry to hear you're having such a hard time finding someone who will be faithful to you!
And yes, there are good men out there - we're all over the place!!!! Some are even "bad boys" without being cheating, lying bastards!!
Perhaps you're just looking in the wrong place? I'm not saying you need to go to church to meet men. I'm just suggesting you change your usual spots for some new ones!
Good Luck!
Aloha!!
2007-03-03 20:41:48 · answer #6 · answered by gabriel_demus 4 · 1⤊ 0⤋
There are good men that want to settle.. You may think about where you are meeting the guys you are dating and change that aspect. the ones that cheat on you , just be glad it happened sooner than later
2007-03-03 21:28:33 · answer #7 · answered by luckygirl 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I consider myself a good guy. I only want one woman as long as we can both find happiness in each other. I have wondered many times if there are some good women out there with lack of baggage.
2007-03-03 20:36:30 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
Yes. Maybe your looking in the wrong places. Generally speaking, you'll find love when your not looking for it. Why are there so many desperate women who think they have to be in a relationship or married? I met my husband when I wasn't looking for a man. I was happy with myself and my life and didn't need a man to validate me. Now, I can't imagine life without him.
2007-03-03 20:36:15 · answer #9 · answered by QT 5 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Good men exist, and don't settle for anything less!
2007-03-03 21:43:50 · answer #10 · answered by Shelley 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋