2007-03-03 12:10:29 · 9 answers · asked by *~Blondie~* 1 in News & Events ➔ Other - News & Events
well, if your invite said your name only - Its only you!
(and what fun is that if you only know the bride & groom)
If your invite had your name & guest - then you can bring a guest.
However, the bride/groom may not know you are dating someone so they only put your name....SO, if you really want to bring a guest - call the bride & groom (only if they did not state guest on the invite) and ask them if its OK....
Good Luck & Have fun!
2007-03-03 12:25:16 · answer #1 · answered by Mammamia3 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
The invitation should say you "and guest". Otherwise, don't bring a date. They may be having a sit down dinner and that plate, if a plate and food are available for unexpected guests, will cost them extra.
Call the bride and ask if you can bring a guest (if the reception is buffet style, it may not matter much, if at all).
If the answer is no or if she's struggling to find a polite way to say no, then take a hint and decide if you're prepared to make new friends or acquaintances and/or just willing to go and wish her well and have a good time regardless. There may very well be other singles (male and female) you could meet.
2007-03-03 21:06:34 · answer #2 · answered by answerme 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Make sure you are invited with a date first. If it does not specify You AND GUEST on the invitation (usually on the envelope) then it is considered extremely rude to try to bring a guest. If it does specify a guest, then bring someone you know you will have a good time with, since the bride and groom will be pretty busy for the whole of the reception. Otherwise, go by yourself, meet some cool new people, and have a good time!
2007-03-03 20:17:02 · answer #3 · answered by Hilary M 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Was your invitation address to you and a guest or was it only to you?
If you are in a serious long-term relationship, it is very acceptable for you to bring a date. However, if you aren't and this is a intimate affair, I would recommend that you do not.
Weddings are meticulously planned and costly so I would really reconsider the importance of a date.
If the bride is good at planning, you most likely be seated next to other guests in your same situation. This is definitely a great way to meet new people.
2007-03-03 20:25:16 · answer #4 · answered by JustAGirl 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
WELL, IF THE BRIDE AND GROOM WOULDN'T MIND THEN TAKE A GUEST OR A DATE WITH YOU ..GOOD LUCK!
2007-03-03 20:59:27 · answer #5 · answered by Swm 39 4 Younger Swf Forever 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Was the invite for you and a guest? If so then you need to decide if you will feel uncomfortable there alone....
2007-03-03 20:15:11 · answer #6 · answered by beth l 7 · 1⤊ 0⤋
It should say on your invite you and guest, otherwise, you will have to go alone.
2007-03-03 20:18:37 · answer #7 · answered by Kalanthy 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
did the invite say you AND GUEST? usually a date is fine.
ill go with you. we d have fun. you have very nice large mammary glands
2007-03-03 20:52:39 · answer #8 · answered by magnet4trouble 4 · 0⤊ 1⤋
How confident do you feel about yourself, as far as making new friends.
2007-03-03 20:19:24 · answer #9 · answered by ? 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋