Im just too emotionally attatched to my boyfriend, im so used to seeing him all the time, but now all of a sudden we dont get to see each other as much... I cry because i always feel like i am away from him... I shouldnt be like this it is probably unhealthy... I used to have a lot of other friends to hang with but when my boyfriend and i started dating, they were jealous, and stopped being my friend ( for lack of better phrase) now i feel like when he is gone, i am all alone... and i cry... and cry.. and cry.. please help me.. what should i do... Do i have an emotional disorder?
2007-03-03 11:43:41 · 4 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Other - Family & Relationships
I think this is normal but you have to find some other friends and get a hobby, this will occupy your time and help you with the separation anxiety.
2007-03-03 12:03:16 · answer #1 · answered by lovin' life... 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
you dont have an emotional disorder this is perfectly natural, human beings are a communal species, we need other people around. the loss of your friends is definetly the problem talk to them and try to gain thier forgiveness for not hanging out with them more before maybe they will understand you never know until you try. If they are cold and decide not to forgive that well then you just need to find new friends, a neighbor, the postman..lol anybody if you can't get out a friendly conversation isn't hard to make happen if you are geniune about it, i hope ive helped good luck
2007-03-03 19:53:10 · answer #2 · answered by KarenLynne 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
i really doubt that everyone was sooooo jealous of you that they stopped being your friend. its much more likely that you were so all about him 24/7 that they got sick of it.
no offense, but people are incredibly short sighted when it comes to things like this.
i once had a very good friend who simply would not shut up about her man. everything was all about him. dave this, dave that. dave dave dave all the time.
once we went out to eat together at a family style restaurant where everyone splits the entrees (amd the bill) and without even asking anyone else there, she automatically ordered all of his favorites for all of us to eat (and split the bill on). that was the absolute last straw for a couple of her other friends besides me.
you need some other relationships in your life besides this guy.
get some other interests and make a life for yourself that doesn't revolve around him.
good luck to you.
2007-03-03 20:40:02 · answer #3 · answered by YumYumTree 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If u need someone to talk to about this feel free to send me an instant message. I'll try to help as best as I can.
2007-03-03 19:47:41 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋