my dad said he is going to beat the crap out of me what should i do?

Question

my dad said he is going to beat the crap out of me because i wouldnt let my little sister walk MY puppy and the other night when he said"pass the ketchup" my little sister had it and got gross looking stuff all over it so i was barly holding the bottle...and i dont know what to do..my friend said to call the police...but im not sure if im spost to..and IF i do im scared he will be locked up and then my mom and sisters will hate me


help me im scared

Answer 1

Is thie for real?

Answer 2

It Counts On If He Waz Serious.As Rasied In An African American Family,Parents Just Say Things Like "I'll Slap Ya So Hard,I'll Slap The White Into Ya", But If He Waz Serious And I Mean Serious Then First Call Your Mom,Then Call The Police.Make Sure He Waz Serious About It.You Wouldn't Wanna See Yr Dad Go To Jail For Something That Wazn't Really Serious Or Just To Get You To Do That

Hope This Helps,
Jay Tay

Answer 3

Well the only thing I can say about this is -has he "beaten the crap out of you before" If not he was probably just really frustrated with you and wanted to make you share. I tell my daughter im gonna kick her butt all the time. Ive never laid a hand on her. Now it makes me wonder if she thinks im serious. Sounds to me like your being selfish with your little sister. Its not gonna kill you if she walks the puppy. dont you think she wants to join in on the fun too? Thats what I get mad at my daughter for too she crys and screams when I make her share with her little sis. I hope you dont do the same.

Answer 4

Just do what he says to avoid getting beat.
Don't be scared. stay close to your little sister and mom.
Don't hog the dog let your sister walk it but under your supervision. Tell your dad " I'll let her walk the dog but I'm going to go with her". He won't say no to that right?
And as for the ketchup, you should have just passed it but with a napkin so you wouldn't get the gross stuff on your hand.
Good Luck.

Answer 5

Baby listen no one should be hurting you. Your mother should never allow anyone to deliberately harm you. If she really loves you she would not hate you for protecting yourself. If he hurts you, YOU SHOULD CALL THE POLICE!!! Here is the number for the abuse hotline and the number for counseling they both are confidential so you don't have to give names if you don't want to but sweetie you need professional advice, 1- 800- 4- A- Child (1- 800- 422- 4453) and 1-800-999-9999. They are both open 24 hours a day 7 days a week.

Answer 6

Your father had no right to say that to you or make you feel afraid. What you are experiencing is verbal abuse and it is wrong. If you are afraid of your father, I would talk to a teacher that you trust the most after class and tell them that you need help. Tell them the story you told us. They will protect you because they are mandated by law to report abuse. Your school will call the police and you will have much more support from your teachers than if you called the police alone.
When I was your age, my father beat me and said horrible horrible things. For it to be abuse, he doesn't have to hit you. Words hurt just as much as a slap across the face. My father got so angry that he really hurt my mother; he lost control. Don't take the risk of getting hurt by staying quiet, even if he has never touched you. You are not alone, I know how it feels to be afraid. Don't let your father continue to abuse you, your sister, or your Mom. Talk to your teacher as soon as you can and get help!

Answer 7

If he was really angry enough to do it he would have done it already. I can't imagine he gave you time to write a question on Yahoo - and is then going to 'beat the crap out of you'.

Sometimes parents say things when they are angry but they don't mean it literally. Maybe, just maybe, you have a spanking coming - - that is much different than a beating.

If you are really scared talk to your mom or to another relative. Calling the police or Child Protective Services really won't help you unless something VERY bad is happening and frankly it just doesn't sound that way.

Answer 8

If you call the police or social services you would be doing the whole family a favor. This man does not need to be a part of your life. Don't let him scare you. No one should ever talk to someone like that. Be strong!!! :) You could also talk to the school counselor.

Answer 9

If its just a spanking because you were misbehaving then theres really nothing I can say but don't do it next time.

If he is really going to beat you then you need to go straight to your mom and tell her whats going on.

If she doesn't listen to you tell a friends parent or a teacher, and they will help you.

If he comes after you and there is nothing stopping him, get out of the house or where ever you are as fast as you can. Go to a friends house or a relatives or a neighbors house or a store or something. The closest place where there are people who can help you. Tell them what is going on and that this is a serious situation.

If it gets too bad, you need to call the police.

Good Luck! Wish you the best hun.

Answer 10

I don't mean 2 sound rude.But,I don't get it!If this happened the other day...&,he threatened u...don't u think he wuld've already did it?If he's beat u in the past,then,by all means child,go 2 somebody.If not,then yur just being way 2 sensitive.I mean {in my opinion}nobody has the right 2 really hit a child.There r other ways of punishing a child.So,like I said,I don't mean 2 sound harsh.Just stop & think about what yur saying about yur Dad!*

Answer 11

Is he really abusing you? My dad always said, " i'm going to beat you!" or we called it getting beat when it was a slight spanking that we deserved.

If you are in danger call someone, but think about it first, cause you can hurt those you love by over reacting about something dumb, which many young people do. Talk to your mom or another friend.