she is getting on my last nerve. now she is acting prepy. i knew her since we were 9 and we were bestfriends since than + plus i was her 1st friend when she came to america (nobody wanted to accept her). now she is telling me what to do talking to some ppl i hate and she being so different. i told her once that she is acting really different and i told her to not get mad at me and she did. i wanna tell her but she will get mad at me and i dont wanna lose her as my bestfriend, but i dont know if i can take it anymore. im there 4 her when she needs help and she sometimes is there 4 me.
2007-03-03 11:29:31 · 15 answers · asked by [[you're only selling sex now]] 3 in Pregnancy & Parenting ➔ Adolescent
i do not push her around, she is the telling me what to do. i just know she is trying to act like this 1 girl
2007-03-03 11:40:58 · update #1
ok, she is always telling me what 2 do. my friends notice the same thing. she is acting mean and doesnt care about anyone but herself unlike me
2007-03-03 12:05:22 · update #2
Okay I have gone through this kind of thing b4, my friend was just going a phase which a lot of people go through but let her know how u feel and if she stops being ur friend then she was never really ur friend in the first place. We have friends to keep us in line and let us know when we are doing something wrong so just tell her.
2007-03-03 12:33:20 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
Don't be so possessive about your friend. She's your friend, not your pet. If you have a pet at home, you'll notice that sometimes (dog or cat) will pull away from you and not want to play with you but that doesn't mean they don't love you. They'll play with you another time. It's good for her to make friends with other people too. You should not focus on her so much as if she should have only you as her friend. You must try to make other friends as well. If she's from another country, she's probably just very eager to fit in and make more friends. You should try to be happy for her. Apparently she still likes you, so don't let that get in the way of friendship. Also, there's nothing wrong with her getting along with people you don't like, as long as she is loyal to you and does not discuss your business with them or make fun of you with them. You guys are very young and you'll both change in many ways for a long time to come. It's actually good to do that at this age. Be happy when you see her and try to do fun things together and not get mad at her since you said you've both been there for each other.
2007-03-03 12:05:41 · answer #2 · answered by bombastic 6 · 0⤊ 1⤋
Sounds like the friendship has become one sided, Do you want to be the only one tryin?
PPl change I'd had friends when I was younger that I still consider friends but we don't hang out anymore, some of them went from wearing goth clothes to three piece suits.
If the friendships not working for you anymore just start distancing your self from her. I f she comes back to you wanting to know why tell her
Hope this helps
2007-03-03 11:39:18 · answer #3 · answered by walker9842 4 · 1⤊ 0⤋
maybe she has changed and has a need to "find" herself. Let her know that you truly appreciate your friendship, and you always love those memories. However..you WILL not tolerate her rudeness and attitude. You'll be around if she wants to talk sometime, but as a BFF, ...she's FIRED. Bestfriends don't do that. You already lost her as that, maybe though you can salvage what still exists as a regular friendship.
2007-03-03 11:37:57 · answer #4 · answered by MARK H 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Why keep being her friend if she doesnt care about how you feel bossing you around and she's hanging with people you dont like. No matter what it's just gonna get worse so talk to her face to face 1 on 1. And if she doesnt understand then you need to get over her no matter how hard it is. And trust me its gonna be hard.
2007-03-03 11:34:09 · answer #5 · answered by Dionna 2 · 2⤊ 0⤋
One of the facts of life is that people change. Especially in middle/high school. It seems to me like you are putting alot of effort into someone who isnt even trying to put any effort back in. There will be other best friends in your life, who will love you and care for you like this girl does not. It will be hard, but I think you should talk to her about this, but be prepared to let her go her own ways, knowing that in the end you will both be bigger and better people for it.
2007-03-03 11:35:20 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
get over it, your in high school, you have plenty of time to have a "life long friend" when your older and can find some one that adds to your life rather than draining from it, trust me i know it will be hard to let go ,you'll see her and want to talk to her bu t she'll get pulled away, and you'll get hurt trust me I've gone through the same thing, you grow apart, that's just the way things are, accept it, then get over it.
2007-03-03 12:58:55 · answer #7 · answered by brooke 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Say" Lately you have been acting different and i don't know if i can handle it".
u may lose her as a best friend but it is never a good idea to be around people who don't treat you right.
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2007-03-03 11:33:39 · answer #8 · answered by :) 3 · 4⤊ 0⤋
I'm not trying to be a ***** but grow up!!! I mean i was bestfriends with this girl candice for 10 years and we just stop talking you got to realzie people grow a part thats life...
2007-03-03 11:54:46 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 1⤋
just tell her how you feel and hope that she doesn't get mad. if she does give her time and she will come around when she realizes what is going on
good luck !!!!.
2007-03-03 11:38:29 · answer #10 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋