Help please!?

Question

Where do I start? I was friends with a girl a year ago, until she completely turned her back on me. She made up rumours and was just horrid towards me. We were on-and-off friends from then on, I don't know why I stayed with her. Things got REALLY bad a month ago, when she made up MORE rumours, wrote things about me on the bathroom walls, hurt my feelings by constantly PICKING ON me, and stole my boyfriend! My mom went to guidance and principal, who told us to keep away from eachother. I did just that, and so did she for a few weeks. But last week, she sat at our table, and I was told by teachers, my parents, everyone, that if she were to come near me I WAS TO TELL SOMEONE. I did during that lunch, and she was moved. Then she told my friends how 'unfair' that was, and turned some against me! She sent nasty emails to them, and to me impersonating them, and saying they didn't want to be my friend anymore. Then, last night she called some people pretending to be me. WHAT CAN I DO??????

Answer 1

Similar thing happened to me when I was younger..
KILL HER WITH KINDNESS!

If they are really your friends they will come to you about what "you" said to them on the phone or online. When they do this its up to you to set things straight. But what ever you do, DO NOT talk trash about that girl to anyone, EVER. Doing that will only get you into trouble and worsen the situation.

Confront the rumors! Tell people how things really are.

Be nothing but nice to that girl. Don't let anything she does get to you, you'll be better off in the end.

If your so called "friends" really turn against you, just brush it off. Real friends will stick with you through anything. However, if some of them come crawling back, don't be too proud to forgive them and be friends again.

Seriously, what ever you do remember that it doesn't matter what people say or what they do, you know who you are.
You kno what you have and have not said or done.
Be happy with yourself and don't let people get to you.


Hope this helps, hun.

Answer 2

About all you can do is tell your friends that you dont know why but this is what she is doing, and that you have been told to stay away from her , and she is to stay clear of you. Let a teacher tell her to move , your friends will get the idea that if the teacher is doing it there must be a reason. Then be polite.

With an email there should be an option to show full headers. That will show were the mail actually came from . If your school has a computer teacher he may be able to show you how to show a faked email.

Answer 3

I can't belive people these days would do such a thing! It must be so horrible for you to be at schoool. =( I think you should just confont her. When she sits at your table again or near lots of people. You shoudl say really loud. WHY ARE YOU SPREADING FAKE RUMORS ABOUT ME AND LYING TO OTHER PEOPLE!? DO YOU WANT THEM TO KNOW YOU'RE LYING? DO YOU WANT TO GO THROUGH THE PRINCIPAL AGAIN? I think people like her aren't afraid to go over limits until you confront them. Or you do the same thing to her so she knows how it feels, but that is a really bad idea because it will just cause lots of rivalries. What she is doing is extremely mean! But, if you do believe in karma, it will hit her in the back. What the hell is up with her anyways? Is she just doing this to try to gain more friends?

Answer 4

The best thing to do is to talk to your friends.Tell them what has been going on and how it makes you feel.DON'T LEAVE ANYTHING OUT! True friends will hear you out and not believe the nasty bully.Trust me,if friends turn against you before knowing the full story they are not worth having.If this gets worse go talk to the guidance counselor again.She could be expelled for something like that where I go to school.

Answer 5

it really depends on your grade. anything under 6th is freaky.
If you r in 7th grade or higher, then you are one of those stupid girls. when i say that, i mean you just live your life, you don't care about being cool, and have:
NO KNOWLEDGE OF THE WORD "SNITCH"!!!
If you r in middle or high school, and tell teachers anything you think is wrong, you are a snitch. a snitch is someone who rats on people. no matter what you tell the teachers, they can't do anything.

You have to take the offensive. Make more friends, get more in touch with the kids, not the adults. start being kool. If you can get the bulk of your grade to choose you over her. once you got that done, you can start getting people to realize how bad your ex-friend is.

it should go smoothly then.

Answer 6

Well I don't know how old you are but school doesn't last forever, just remember that. Nothing that happens in school matters later. You could be the most popular girl in school and have all the friends and then have a horrible social life outside of school. So don't worry about it, Ignore her, it will make her angry that you don't react to her rumors and remarks. And anyone who turned on you for her, wasn't your friend to begin with. You will always have someone like that in your life, just ignore them, otherwise they will ruin your life.
Good luck

Answer 7

To start with any of your friends that sided with her weren't your friends to begin with. Next time just get up and move. Have your true friends call you from another phone to you while this girls on the line impersonating you. That will make her out to be the liar that she is. The more times other ppl. catch her in lies the worst it will get for her

Hope this helps

Answer 8

bullys are sometimes very difficult to deal with. Sounds like your on the right path. sadly the best you can do is let it go try to ignore it. If you can't, keep going to your parents and counselors it is their job to help you....Lets

Answer 9

Try talking to someone about it!

Or Payback is always an option., why should you ahve to suffer?

Answer 10

Umm it sounds like u both need to grown TF up