We are staying in a suite/studio type of hotel while we are waiting for our house to be finished. We are staying near Disneyland , and a few of the crew members for a show on Disney channel were here staying, well I got aquainted with a few of them in the lobby and they all wanted me to go to the House of Blues and of course invite my hubby as well...well the people that invited me were 2 women close to my age~ one of them that i introduced my hubby too was really a nice lady, however...my hubby kept on and on about how hott she was and how he wanted to take her out ,i did ignore this because he was getting drunk and i guess it was the tipsy in him that made him grope her . i remained silent and even the girl got all uncomfortable and weirded out toward his advances. i assured her that i was not upset w/her since she remained a ladylike lady and was polite and tried to walk away from him, but he kept pursueing her and i felt embarrassed because 1 of the ladys there told him off.
2007-03-03 11:22:55 · 15 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Marriage & Divorce
the other lady that told him off said hey look (in front of me and everyone) u are here with your wife shouldnt u hug on her?? and he said oh my wife is hot but this girl is really hot and i want to take her out! i was mortified i wanted to go and hide under a rock! but i did not say anything . i did ignore him
2007-03-03 11:24:59 · update #1
i was soooo embarrassed that he would do that infront of all of us like that and it made me feel like a worthless piece of poop! i am not ugly at all and even if i was he is married to me that is why i feel bad. he woke up this morning and says he remembers only some of it and kept asking me what did i do did i embarrass myself karen did i did i??huh? i was like yeah but u also embarrassed me really bad too and made the girl he was flirting with uncomfortable and ticked off too.
2007-03-03 11:37:27 · update #2
What you're describing is waaaay beyond flirting. His behavior wouldn't have even been appropriate had he been single - at the point where the other woman said she was uncomfortable, he crossed even that line. I don't know what to tell you because I can't imagine my husband doing something like that, but you certainly have my sympathy.
If this is a freak thing for him and he's truly sorry and tries to make it up to you, then you may wish to consider working through it. If it's something that happens more than once, then you may want to consider whether you're happy with the dynamics of your relationship. I know my big worry would be that if this is what he's willing to do in front of me, what's he doing when I'm not around? What a horrid way to treat anyone, much less your wife. I mean, seriously, that would be scummy behavior if this was just some stranger you were on a blind date with. I'm seriously annoyed at your husband just from hearing this story, and I don't even know you.
2007-03-03 12:18:47 · answer #1 · answered by romipenne 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
First off your husband is acting like a child! No grown man should ever get drunk enough to disrespect his wife like that, expecially in public! Second, I would not have waited for the other woman to tell him off. You should have removed yourself and your drunk husband from the situtation. NO EXCUSES! I think you need to have a nice long talk about your relationship! What would have happened if you werent there and another frisky woman was?
2007-03-03 19:33:00 · answer #2 · answered by kewpiedoll0409 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You should talk to your hubby about joining AA. He has a problem. You should also go for counseling. So how did he react the next day? Remorseful? Appologetic? If not, you need to look into some of the other underlying issues in your marriage. If he is worth keeping, he should be appologizing and trying to make it up to you.
2007-03-03 19:41:07 · answer #3 · answered by cakekweeny 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Hmmm, maybe flirt with someone in front of him?
I mean there is not much one can do with a belligerent drunk husband, just smile and make the most of it. I'm so sorry he did that to you, sounds like he needs to avoid the bottle when out in public. Tell him that when he's sober, and tell him how much he embarrassed himself, guys don't like to hear that.
2007-03-03 19:30:54 · answer #4 · answered by Kalanthy 6 · 1⤊ 0⤋
He acted like a real jerk. Forgive my expression, but how dare he disrespect you like that.
I'm sure it was uncomfortable for the other ladies as well, but a real man doesn't treat his wife like that.
I don't know if you told him how bad he made you feel when he was sober, but you should, tell him you wouldn't do such thing but to put him self in your shoes.
Tell him you don't want to go true that again.
2007-03-03 19:32:20 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
There is a old saying that states "Drunk people always speak the truth!"
You need to let him know that; it is not okay to treat you that way and that he needs to stop drinking if he is going to act like that
2007-03-03 19:57:01 · answer #6 · answered by ELDER 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
What's wrong with you? You should know your rights as a wife. If he doesn't respect you in front of other people, then it's time to kick his butt and get him out of your life.
2007-03-03 19:31:58 · answer #7 · answered by phoenix 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
my hubby do the same in front of the web he chat and send them money to diffirent women he went to see her and came back to do more chatting he is 76 want to retire with her in the fareast
2007-03-03 19:49:00 · answer #8 · answered by apolinaria k 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
i would say he showed disrespect for u, to put it mildly. if he can't handle his liquor he needs to stop drinking. but i have heard that when intoxicated the truth does come out. i would definitely confront him and tell him how much it hurt and embarrassed and humiliated u.
2007-03-03 20:30:31 · answer #9 · answered by jude 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Your hubby pays you no respect at all! You should talk this out with him instead of ignoring him.
2007-03-03 19:30:21 · answer #10 · answered by superb2dmax 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋