i dont wanna hurt her feelings
2007-03-03 10:56:33 · 9 answers · asked by ☮ ♥ :] 3 in Family & Relationships ➔ Friends
Don't tell her, just gradually break it off.
2007-03-03 10:59:55 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 1⤋
If you're only pretending to be her friend, there must be something about her or your friendship with her that you don't like. Does she annoy you? Is she bothersome? Do you feel a strong urge to smack her in the face? Evaluate the reasons why you are only pretending, and then you should talk to her about what bugs you about your friendship. Tell her how you feel (don't be too rude about it). I would rather do that then pretend to be friends with a girl I can't stand. To remain friends with her with your current state of mind would be deceitful to her and really annoying for you. Good luck.
2007-03-03 19:05:39 · answer #2 · answered by berrylane03 1 · 1⤊ 1⤋
You shouldn't pretend if you really don't wanna be her friend. You can tell her if you want but it might not end on such a happy note. so if you're fine with that then go ahead. for a more subtle approach try just gradually talking less and less to her until you don't talk much anymore.
2007-03-03 19:02:13 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 1⤋
Why are you pretending to be someone's friend in the 1st place??? Did you want something from her?? Its not fair to have someone count on you as a real friend when you arent..so just be true to yourself and that person and do the right thing
2007-03-03 19:00:30 · answer #4 · answered by bebekaychic 3 · 1⤊ 1⤋
why cant it be for real, or do get a rush from hurting others feelings. Don't pretend. Either be her friend for real or back off and go away.
2007-03-03 19:00:50 · answer #5 · answered by duster 6 · 2⤊ 1⤋
pretending to be another person's friend, sorry but don't you think that's rather a mean thing to do. either you are a friend or you are not. save her feeling and slowly back away.
2007-03-03 19:01:59 · answer #6 · answered by Pandora 7 · 1⤊ 1⤋
pick a time where the two of u can talk. let her kno uve been thinking bout it for a while and u dont think u can be friends with her nemore. thigns like this happen.. ppl change. u dont wanna ge stuck with someone u dont wanna be with
that happened to me once, and wen she found out cuz another friend told her.. she got rly depressed for a wk... and now shes moved skools. i was rly stupid.. dont be like me
2007-03-03 19:02:05 · answer #7 · answered by Lyzzy 2 · 1⤊ 1⤋
you will eventually get screwed. just tell her striaght up immediately, rather than leading her on which would make her more angry the longer you wait to tell her.
2007-03-03 19:00:46 · answer #8 · answered by =P 6 · 1⤊ 1⤋
continue
2007-03-03 18:59:49 · answer #9 · answered by ARSENAL FC 4 LIFE!! 3 · 1⤊ 1⤋