You need to know a few things, Don't worry about your weight, and stop trying to lose it your only 14, it's not like your obese. Just walk away from them go to another room any room if nothing else take a book into the bathroom. I will tell you I'm proud of you, just because your mom doesn't care about whether your home or not, your doing the right thing by not taking advantage of it.
Keep up the good work and know that you'll be of age very soon, so get your education and find out in your state when your considered an adult. You'll be able to get out on your own but know the more education you have the better job, the more money, the father away you can get from the drama.
Hope this helps, holla if you need me
2007-03-03 11:19:34
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answered by walker9842 4
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Let me understand this, your sister is on drugs and your mom is acting like an enabler and siding with her, while neglecting you and threw you out previously because you expressed your feelings about it? So sad to hear. First of all, you definitely don't sound fat, based on the info you provided. Where is your dad? Is he available to help you? Try not to take their teasing too seriously. Maybe they don't realize that it hurts you so much. Ask them if they realize how it hurts you? Sometimes when people feel badly about themselves they have to make fun of others to make themselves feel better. Sometimes adults behave foolishly and they are not as mature and sensitive as they should be. I'm sorry to hear that you're not getting the treatment that you deserve. It's not your fault. Are there any kind family members who could help you? Tell them what is going on. Your mom is going against the law if she throws you out, as you are still a minor. Speak to your guidance counselor at school right away. See if there's anything they can do to help you. Maybe there's a social worker there too who can help. Don't run away from home because no matter how bad things are at home, it's a million times worse out on the streets. Try to focus on your schoolwork and get your education now and remember that in a few years, you'll be able to live your own life away from them. Soon you'll be of legal age and you will be free. Good luck my dear and remember to "Keep your eye on the prize." In other words, don't lose sight of your goals and your dreams, no matter how bad their words make you feel. The world is your oyster.
2007-03-03 11:21:21
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answered by bombastic 6
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Go right away to your school nurse and tell her just what you said here. She will get you some help. Of course you are having trouble loosing weight, you are stressed. I don't know what the charts say you should weigh, but maybe you are OK for now. You still have some growing to do. Ask you doctor if you need to loose weight and if the answer is yes, ask him for help. Sounds to me like 80 pounds would make you skin and bones. You can talk to your doctor about your mother and sister, too, you know. Don't keep this to yourself. Please don't be afraid to talk to someone - maybe a family member can help, also. But definitely the school nurse, OK? You are a smart kid to know things aren't right. Be proud of yourself no matter what! Congratulations that you know enough to stay away from drugs!!!
2007-03-03 10:58:53
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answered by DPL06351 5
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you dont really need to lose weight unless suggested by your doctor.
Recent height weight tables show 104 pounds as the minimum healthy weight for a woman 5'2" tall and 17-20 years old.
I would ask your school nurse about your weight. I would also ask her about counselling for you.
Getting out of the home with your mother and sister may be to your benefit but it will depend on what other options you have. Getting into the foster system may not be any better for you.
Do you have a father , grandparents , uncles or aunts that might have you live with them ?
2007-03-03 12:26:57
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answered by mark 6
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Try to live your own life. You are probably not going to be able to change them. Every action causes a reaction. Don't let them know you even heard them when they belittle you. Try to get a good education so you can have a good life independent of them. You need to pay attention to your spelling and grammar. You may need to see a counselor and get some help being stronger. Change your diet and get lots of exercise so you will be healthy and not overweight. There is probably a very goodlooking and intelligent person there. So get exercise, a good education, and take care of yourself like eating good and keeping your bedroom clean, and be good to your friends, and all this will pass. Maybe you need a dog to love you; but they require a lot of care and love too. Everyone needs the kind of love an animal will give them; but again they do require a lot of care EVERY DAY.
2007-03-03 11:03:48
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answered by Sunkist3599 3
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Is your parents divorced? If so, you should move in with you dad only if he treats you better than your mom and sister. After this you should try to take you mom to court and tell them that she treats you bad. Make a notebook of everything she says and does to you and what you sister does also. I would keep it with one of my friends or in my locker at school so she wouldn't find it. If you sister is on drugs she needs help! Talk to you school counselor or one of dare officers at school just make sure not to tell all of you friends.
Britt
2007-03-03 10:58:58
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answered by britt084u 2
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First of all, DON'T LOOSE ANYMORE WEIGHT! You are fine. Ignore the teasing and take care of yourself. Try to do the right things for yourself.
2007-03-03 11:42:47
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answered by Small Fry 5
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u need to tell someone about this because this could lead to abuse
and u DO NOT need to lose weight
80 pounds at 14 y/o is NOT HEALTHY
2007-03-03 11:42:17
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answered by :) 3
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Ur not fat and id go to the police for help
2007-03-03 10:56:57
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answered by Anonymous
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WELL IM SORRY :( WAT U CAN DO IS TALK TO ANYBODY THAT U TRUST . IF U HAVE FAMILY TELL THEM MAYBE THEY CAN KEEP U OR JUST TRY TO TELL HER AGAIN JUST DONT GET IN DRUGS LIKE UR SIS WISH U LUCK AND GOD WILL HELP U OUT.
2007-03-03 10:54:13
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answered by "Me!" 2
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