i exercise every morning, dress sexy, and keep my body nice and my health right. my husabnd wont workout with me. he wont quit smoking, i feel like if he met me yesterday he would care more about himself. i go to work and make alot of money and he doesnt even try to keep a job reguraly. while im at work he'll go to a firend house to rap music. am i tripping or do i deserve more.
2007-03-03 10:29:28 · 13 answers · asked by OpenMePoet 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Marriage & Divorce
Sounds like you need to put him out, and make him get a job to pull his own weight.
2007-03-03 10:32:44 · answer #1 · answered by emtb9 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Why did you marry him in the first place? What attracted you to him? I think you should have an open talk with him and tell him your feelings. He will decide to change if he wants to. Then when you leave him, he won't wonder why. I agree with you that you deserve the same in return.
2007-03-03 18:33:27 · answer #2 · answered by Jennifer 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Yes you definitely deserve better! It sounds like your husband is a lazy *ss! Maybe you need to sit down and have a talk with him. Tell him you are unhappy and talk about what you would like to see change.
2007-03-03 18:38:40 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
It sounds as tho you may have grown apart. If he's not willing to live up to your standards......it could be HIS loss. Of course you deserve someone who has a mind and at least some similar goals. Let him know how you feel, and if he's serious about your marriage, you may begin to enjoy each other again. (I assume you did at one time?)
2007-03-03 18:38:12 · answer #4 · answered by iyamacog 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
plan a romantic getaway.
show him you think he is sexy and he should come around. no offense, but guys dont need to be told they are as desirable as woman want to hear it. after all you said though, your man should be so into you.
2007-03-03 18:48:53 · answer #5 · answered by shawn k 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
was he like this whn u married him? if so, u got wht u wanted. if not, did u marry him for better, worse, or until... for whatever reason he doesn't care about himself, you, or your marriage. is he depressed? are u dogging hm out? wht is the root of his prob?
2007-03-03 18:37:18 · answer #6 · answered by ladi 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
He will continue to mooch off of you as long as you let him. Yes, you do deserve more.
2007-03-03 18:38:10 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
You deserve more, if you ever get to Oregon come see me.
2007-03-03 18:56:19 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Has he changed since you married him?
2007-03-03 18:31:50 · answer #9 · answered by supertop 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
you should hook up with me I work 16 hours strength and I AM IN GOOD SHAPE.And you and I WE CAN BUY HALF OF USA.GOOD LUCK GIRL
2007-03-03 18:58:05 · answer #10 · answered by Zeki A 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋