2007-03-03 10:11:52 · 23 answers · asked by maggie 4 in Arts & Humanities ➔ Philosophy
Whatever course of life you are taking, I think you need to respect your treasure of human relationship you have built up up to now.
Please treasure and rely on the following three categories of human connections.
1. Your teacher in your life.
Here, the word "teacher" does not necessarily mean your school teacher. It is someone you respect and you would rely on in the time of difficulty, both in terms of difficulty in your mental problem or social problem. The "teacher" might be one of your parents or both of them, or your seniors.
2. Your true friends
"A friend in need is a friend indeed." as they say, I think friends are most important things which you can resort to whenever you need some sorts of help.
3. Your life partner
As you are a young woman, you may need to find a future partner of your life. So, try to find an ideal your future partner.
Living on one's own can be excited or thrilling, but please remember there will always be ups and downs in one's life.
Try to be optimistic to every new thing you may encounter from now on.
Very good luck for you.
2007-03-03 10:27:34 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 1⤋
consider each step done and succeeded ,even before it is done!
if you really wish something,if you really think that you really want something..GO FOR IT !
don't let nothing or anyone stop you!
the choices and the steps you make will be what you wanted to be!
do never look back with regrets,if something goes wrong ,just take it only as an experience!
you may fall..but the best thing is that you'll be able to stand up again,so go on with your dreams .hope always for the better and do not be afraid to risk !life is already a risk ..
hope i was able to help you dear!
good-luck with each step you might make
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2007-03-03 18:32:37 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Find and maintain good friendships. They will be more important than the guys you date or the jobs you take.
When you find a particular part of life hard - have no shame in seeking help. I refer to career counseling, psychological counseling (group therapy for example), physical training, academic counseling (LSAT prep for example). Many young people think they have to figure out all the answer on their own and this pride hurts their ability to get outside perspectives that can be helpful to all areas of their life.
Good luck and have a great life!
2007-03-03 18:22:02 · answer #3 · answered by HomeSweetSiliconValley 4 · 2⤊ 0⤋
Take some time to discover what your real potential as a human actually is, as opposed to buying into mainstream thought and culture. Meditate and exercise regularly; study a bit about esoteric buddhism and taoism. Follow your artistic and creative inclinations.
check out http://www.spiritmythos.org and http://www.worldofsouls.com for something out of the ordinary. And read: *the Complete Idiot's Guide to Toltec Wisdom* . By taking that step into the "non ordinary" you will be making headway toward living a conscious and content existence, instead of one filled with fear, confusion, drama and ill health.
Best of luck :)))
2007-03-03 18:24:18 · answer #4 · answered by drakke1 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Embrace your independence. There is nothing like knowing you can do it, and you can do it alone. If I hadn't had the opportunity to live life on my own, I'd never be ready and content to settle down and live with my boyfriend. I think everyone should experience living on their own once in their life. It's the one time in my life I didn't have to answer to my mother, consider my roommate's or significant other feelings or opinions. I did what made me happy, when it made me happy, and I never got lonely because I had people over or I went out with friends....it was one of the best times in my life. Good luck and have fun!
2007-03-03 18:21:00 · answer #5 · answered by morebidd 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Be careful, that first step is a whopper. A journey of a thousand miles begins with a single step.
2007-03-03 18:22:13 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
Be frugal
Buy some quality blue chip stocks and treat them like your pension
use words wisely and listen carefully
There really are all kinds of people about
Know who your real friends are, and look after them
Don't fall into relationships without one or even two character tests.
Be prepared to rely solely on yourself
2007-03-04 01:49:05 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 3⤊ 0⤋
Do not learn this the hard way as I have.
Get in the habit of watching your money and spend it wisely.
Avoid abusing credit cards.
What ever you make, make sure you save a good portion of it and use the rest for whatever you need and want.
People say I rather be happy then rich to rationalize their over spending. This is bullsh*t. Money is important and without it, you will be very miserable.
2007-03-03 18:25:49 · answer #8 · answered by gotagetaweigh 4 · 2⤊ 1⤋
You're not going to meet every nice guy in a nightclub. If you get to the stage when you can't find anyone nice/trustworthy you want to be with, look elsewhere.
2007-03-04 08:36:11 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
Be yourself
Trust yourself
Live in the present
Enjoy. Be natural
Help others while looking after yourself
Be happy.
Avoid followng others. Make your own path,
2007-03-04 00:37:56 · answer #10 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋