My little sister's bestfriend is Jessica,11,goes to shadeville elementry and is being bullied.i have no way to help it because im not that older and they wont listen to anyone!There is these two girls,Alison D. and Tiffany M.:The Bullies they treat her so bad they turned all her friends and more against her and she is alone at her school her parents try to help but they cant transfer her,she is tired of the teasing name calling and being made fun of i want to help her!She TRIED to tell but then everyone will start calling her a snitch and everything,Alison and Tiffany even tried to beat her up!She Bit and left bruises on both of their arms as self defense but nobody believes her,she has no reason to bite them and didnt want to please help me help her!
2007-03-03 10:11:47 · 12 answers · asked by dustybunny1343 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Friends
TALK. TO . A GODDAMN COUNSLER.
if they dont do anything about it.... then she needs to fight back! not physically, but just go up to them and say "you are trully p[athetic. you feel so empty inside, so hurt and miserable, that you have to take it out on other poeple and see them cry, because it gives you some sick satisfaction to know you arnt the only ones who feel dead inside. go to a ******* counsler and get some help. because your life is going to be so much worse if you dont work out your sht and treat people with the respect they deserve"
ok... thats a bit long... but you need to get in their faces and show them that they have NO RIGHT to treat another human being like that just because they are so torn up in their heart.
good luck.
xoxo
:)
2007-03-03 10:23:47 · answer #1 · answered by kiss the cook 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
oh sweetie, I am sorry to hear about your little sister's best friend. That can be hard both for Jessica and your younger sister, and you because you want to help. It's unfortuante that there are people like that who can be so cruel. But there is good news in all of this! You and your sister can be nice to her and even though you can't be there all the time to defend her, perhaps you can help her feel good by occasionally inviting her over to your house for a play day... or just to chill out so that she has a place where she can just be herself without all the bullying and teasing. Or maybe have a little party (just the three of you) to celebrate how special she is and what there is to like about her. It is no fun being teased. When I was your age, I was teased a lot because of my race. It was no fun. When I was in high school, I would walk by the elementary school I used to go to, and the black kids would tease me and scream "chink" at me. Now, mind you... these were 8-10 year olds yelling names at a 16 year old. My mom would tell me to just ignore them, and I did or at least tried to, but it still hurt and I felt like crying. There are mean people, and there are nice. Maybe one of these days, you and your younger sister can have a day at your house where you directly talk about the bullying and teasing. It may help her to talk about it and tell you how she feels... and how it hurts... so she won't feel all bottled up. What she really needs are people who will be nice to her and listen to her.... and you and your younger sister can help in that way. The cruel people.... they may not ever change.... but you can help her change how she sees things and reacts and copes to the situation. You can tell her.... when they do that.... she can say in her head, "Hmph.... who needs them!" or... "too bad they don't know how to be nice to me". Sometimes the best way to do things... is just for her to at least "try" to ignore them. Sometimes people do that just to see how you will react. And if she doesn't give them a reaction or any kind.... they eventually will give up and go on to pick on someone else. If she shows them that whatever they do does not bother them, they will se that she has confidence and high self-esteem... and go on to someone else who might be bothered. Stay strong and be good friends to her. Hope this helps, sweetie.
2007-03-03 10:35:08 · answer #2 · answered by blueskies 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Has she tried talking to them? Does these bullies have a reason to act this way? Let a grown-up take care of the situation. They should get suspended, because hurting another human being is serious. Your sis is a great friend and tell her to keep being by Jessica's side. i hope Jessica continues to be brave. I wish I can be there to help.
2007-03-11 06:50:34 · answer #3 · answered by HardyzChik 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Never mind that "everyone" will think she's a snitch for telling on these two girls. Tell her to go to a teacher she trusts and tell him or her everything that is happening. Bullying doesn't just begin and end in school; it can affect your entire life! Don't allow her to solve this problem on her own! Tell a grown-up! Maybe she just spoke to her classmates about this so far? Helps to get it off her chest, but doesn't solve the problem one bit.
2007-03-03 10:20:21 · answer #4 · answered by - 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
In this day and age it doesn't make sense to me that the school authorities, if they knew about this, couldn't help her. So someone is not communicating this very well to the people in charge.
Have you tried sharing this with your parents and asking them to call the school authorites because they are concerned about what they are hearing concerning how Jessica is being treated.
How many times do we hear about a child who no one would listen to? Tell you parents and ask them to call the school's authorities .....they should follow up....give them the names involved....because something can be done.
Find someone who will call ....because someone will.
2007-03-09 16:10:11 · answer #5 · answered by samantha 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
The school principal & staff have to be made aware of what's going on. They won't tolerate this kind of behavior & the 2 girls should be sent home for 2 weeks so their mothers can attempt to retrain them & let the rest of the student know that rude behavior is not in their best interests.
2007-03-03 10:17:40 · answer #6 · answered by Jim W 4 · 1⤊ 0⤋
first off the teacher--principal and school should be made aware of this--second go to the Police Department and talk to a Juvenile officer---does your town have a DARE program>?? if so go to the Dare officer and explain to him/hew--what is going on==this is a problem in all school systems and do not let this keep going on--do something about it right away
2007-03-03 10:22:00 · answer #7 · answered by willtdn 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Talk to someone about it like the principal, counselor, teacher, someone. because we dont want things to get out of hand. especially as a lil girl you really dont want to start keepin things all bottled up. because when you finally explode, things arent going to be pretty.
2007-03-10 07:14:35 · answer #8 · answered by D 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Tell them off or go to your sisters best freinds bully and stand up for her thats what i would do if i were you
2007-03-11 05:53:12 · answer #9 · answered by Tyler C 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
i will tell you the same thing i tell everyone else who asks me what to do...go tell your parents, make the principles and teacher's aware and tell the bullies' parents
2007-03-08 14:46:52 · answer #10 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 1⤋