I desperately need some advice...?

Question

Where do I start? I was friends with a girl a year ago, until she completely turned her back on me. She made up rumours and was just horrid towards me. We were on-and-off friends from then on, I don't know why I stayed with her. Things got REALLY bad a month ago, when she made up MORE rumours, wrote things about me on the bathroom walls, hurt my feelings by constantly PICKING ON me, and stole my boyfriend! My mom went to guidance and principal, who told us to keep away from eachother. I did just that, and so did she for a few weeks. But last week, she sat at our table, and I was told by teachers, my parents, everyone, that if she were to come near me I WAS TO TELL SOMEONE. I did during that lunch, and she was moved. Then she told my friends how 'unfair' that was, and turned some against me! She sent nasty emails to them, and to me impersonating them, and saying they didn't want to be my friend anymore. Then, last night she called some people pretending to be me. WHAT CAN I DO??????

Answer 1

History really repeats itself because I had a "friend' like that when I was very young and I lived to see the day when the miserable creature couldn't fight anymore and came begging me for my friendship!! I said no, of course because with friends like those, who needs enemies? The root of your former friend's anger is JEALOUSY. She knows your business and knows what a fabulous person you are and feels threatened by you. Otherwise, why would she still be harassing you even after "stealing" your boyfriend? (He really deserves her anyway if he took her on like that). You should be laughing, at his bad judgment, now that he dumped you for such a demonic girl. Now that your mother took steps to keep her away from you and still she bothers you, mom must fight fire with fire. Your mom must meet with the school administration promptly to see what additional steps can be taken to stop this bully who has become a cyber bully. There may be some legal steps that would set her straight. Don't give up.

Answer 2

She is stalking you. This is serious. You have the right to call the police and make a report and have them speak to her. Maybe that would scare her into behaving better. Legally, she could be in a lot of trouble and she sounds like a hard headed kid who needs a good jolt to get her into behaving properly.

Don't call 911. Call the non-emergency number with your parents approval or have your mom or dad or guardian do it for you; yes, that would be best if you can. Your home area might have a community outreach program that is designed for this type of thing.

Life is hard. Do what you can to make it better for yourself. You're worth it! You have to do what you think is right. And it is right to protect yourself against a declared stalker!

Peace

Answer 3

I am sorry for your situation. But, in all reality this is how life is. Some people have problems theirselves and the only way they can deal with it is to lash out at other people. As long as you know that the rumors she is spreading aren't true then dont worry about it. She is the one with the problem not you. You have done what you were told and from now on try and ignore her. If she doesnt leave then you leave. Dont give up on yourself though. If you pray, then try saying a prayer for her every night for the Lord to give her strength to deal with her own life before taking it out on others...TO END THIS, SHE WAS NEVER YOUR FRIEND TO BEGIN WITH......

Answer 4

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Answer 5

That stinks. I think the best thing you can do is ignore her. It's pretty obvious she thinks by being mean to you and starting rumors that it gets people to like her. Sounds like she was jealous of you...you're above her. Let her say that stupid stuff and ignore it. When people say things to you, just blow it off like it's ridiculous and mention that things a lot of things are made up lately - she'll end up looking like a crazy fool. I hope this works out for you, remember - she's just trying to get people's attention b/c she probably gets none when she just acts like herself.

Answer 6

I agree with courious2. She was not your friend to begin with. Start to pick your friends more wisely. Relationships should enhance your life not hold it back. If someone makes you feel uncomfortable they're probably wrong for you. God bless! Love, Cybermom.

Answer 7

Sweet one, you need to get that dim and strike her face real good. Does it not in school, for it will get you in quandary, but outside, not even tell her here I come, just come within reach of her and clout her brainless head. And tell her do not F… with me.

Answer 8

That girl sounds like a b**ch. You really need to sit down and talk tactfully with her. Maybe you two can work something out.

Answer 9

Tell som1 and get back at her do wat she does to u to her