i like this guy but my friend says he isnt good for me because she doesn't like him. she is one of my very best friends but i cant get her to see wat i see in him. this guy is sooo sweet but how do i choose? he treats my friend great also but she doesnt like him she doesnt want to hear anything i say about him
2007-03-03 10:00:06 · 14 answers · asked by shy_grl_08 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Friends
Do what your heart tells you!A TRUE friend woulnd't try to control you over who your heart chooses!Let Good luck Bless you!
2007-03-03 10:05:57 · answer #1 · answered by dustybunny1343 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
This has happened manyy times with me.
Your friend should always be there to support you, she can have her opinions, but you can't let her control your life.
If she gets mad at you, then she doesn't sound like a very good friend. I know it may be hard, but she'll get over it. If you really like this guy, then date him!
On the other hand, if you guys have been friends forever, maybe she does know whats best for you. She could know stuff about him that you don't, and she could just be trying to protect you.
No matter what, sit down and talk to her about it. One on one, she might tell you whats really bothering you about this whole situation, because something is.
Just remember, its your desicion, not hers!
Hope I helped =D
2007-03-03 10:07:32 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Friends come first. But I don't think your friend should put you in a position to choose. Tell her that you understand and appreciate her help, but you need to give a chance anyway. If she's your true friend then there's no reason you can't have both. (maybe she's jealous or knows something you don't)
2007-03-03 10:07:29 · answer #3 · answered by CHICK 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Omg i'm 15 and those 3 adult adult males choose to get right into a courting with me! What ever could desire to I do?! those relationships will of course final way longer than a week it somewhat is extremely significant to me! My advice: Whichever one you like the main, do not flow out with him! You and everyone you date in severe college (according to danger center college?) will hate one yet another till the top of time. My 2d piece of advice: do not hear to hejhs.
2016-10-17 05:00:50 · answer #4 · answered by ? 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
It's all about friends because if this guy dumps you,You are going to need this person to lean on ,You are going to have boyfriends all your life and only a couple of true friends
2007-03-03 10:06:24 · answer #5 · answered by Kalon M 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
What kind of friend is this? I don't see how it's any of her concern. If she has something against him, she should tell you straight out otherwise mind her own business. Is she jealous?
If she's really your friend, she won't make you choose.
2007-03-03 10:05:42 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Tell her if she really cares about you,She'd just let you make your own mistakes,If this does turn out to be a mistake.If she was a true friend,she wouldn't make you chose between the boy && her.
2007-03-03 10:05:31 · answer #7 · answered by GL0 GiNA LYNN 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
This is how you choose who do enjoy being around more.Who makess you laugh who makes you feel like family who have you know longer who do you like better.
2007-03-03 10:04:59 · answer #8 · answered by Applekisses11 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
hey if your friend do not have any real reason not to like him then let her know until she can really give you a good reason then you will continue to see if
2007-03-03 10:05:21 · answer #9 · answered by whyte reign 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
U DONT CHOOSE A GUY OVER A FRIEND! cause when he dumps ur sorry ***, she wont be there! spare yourself, and take your friend!
2007-03-03 10:06:16 · answer #10 · answered by refugegirl222 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋