Ok...so I live in Cincinatti, OH. Me and my friends are all good looking avergae guys...were all best friends...the 4 of us...well right now we are all 28 but when we were 24, we took a roadtrip to california...and on the way there we took a nature walk...and it was really hot outside...so we took a dip in a clear freshwater pond. We all dipped in with just our underwear. Then, the conversation started to drfit sexually...we all admitted that we have never been skinny dipping...and we all agreed that we should...and we werent concerned about anything...we were all guys....we had nothing to hide...we all have the same things...so we all took turns taking off our underwear and we were all naked in front of eachother. We all admitted that it turned us on...and luckily no stranger came by! we were there all afternoon...and we all admitted this turned us on being naked and swimming togtehr and seeing eachother naked. are we gay for this?
2007-03-03 09:48:27 · 16 answers · asked by Anonymous in Health ➔ Men's Health
Well, you are curious, and that may be the beginning of homosexuality. you didn't say you did anything, so i suppose it could be just a homoerotic fantasy. if you want to find our for sure have sex with a guy!
2007-03-03 09:59:46 · answer #1 · answered by Boston Bluefish 6 · 2⤊ 0⤋
Intimate it may have been and 4 good friends all seeing each other for the first time and sharing a good time together naked well it could be enjoyable. But is it gay? No its just human.
Gay is when you want another man and have sex with only men and that is what you really want. That is you are not attracted to a women emotionally or sexually you are attracted to men emotionally and sexually.
You know what you feel inside so what is it for you?
2007-03-04 12:29:45 · answer #2 · answered by Crampy Grampy 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
No, I don't think that you are gay for this. NOTHING HAPPENED! Guys need to learn and learn now that it's not abnormal to find another guy attractive. Guys admire other guys all the time. Look at it like this -- When a guy is looking at a men's muscle magazine, what is he actually doing? YEP, he's looking at other guy's bodies. This culture is so absurd; women can tell other women all day long that they are pretty, or have nice breast, or have a nice butt, but if a guy tells another guy that he has a nice body people think he is gay. This is wrong. There is nothing wrong with the feelings that you experienced. It's time that society lightened up and became true to their feelings. So relax and don't worry about it.
2007-03-03 10:57:39 · answer #3 · answered by JD, MAPSY 6 · 2⤊ 0⤋
I'm not an expert but judging from what you told me this is not normal. I myself can look at another man naked and I will never be turned on. So to answer your question I believe your gay.
2007-03-06 15:31:27 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
It’s natural to get a little excited looking at other men; it does not make you Gay!
I’m Gay!
What you did is not, if you act on it for Experimenting once or twice don’t make you GAY, if you do it on the Third time then I would think you my have some soul searching to do.
Wondering if you really like it or not but if you keep going back to it, then I would say Yes! That would give you title of being Homosexual/Gay
If you or your friends act on it!
Don’t put them down for it, be a friend.
I hope this answers your question!
2007-03-03 22:48:45 · answer #5 · answered by Just me! 5 · 0⤊ 1⤋
No; you're not gay.
Guys are visually stimulated. We see a naked body & we respond.
Guys equate phyical intimacy with sexuality because they confuse the two.
They are related, but separate.
You're not gay. A man can see two animals humping & he is excited by it. this doesn't make him want to have sex with animals. It just makes him a guy.
You enjoyed the intimacy...the trust...the confidence given when you disrobed in front of them. All males desire this. Nothing sexual happened.
2007-03-03 10:22:16 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 3⤊ 0⤋
If your not, your very secure with your manhood, and that's extremely rare. Most men are not secure with there manhood.
The fact that you admit that you were turned on by the moment or your friends says that your curious or just enjoying the moment with your good friends.
You could also be gay, but only you and your friends will know that.
Good Luck
2007-03-03 10:10:35 · answer #7 · answered by mevanr8x7 3 · 0⤊ 1⤋
It's very possible, but you aren't gay FOR SURE unless you start to fall in love with a guy. Love is different than being turned on by someone of the same sex.
2007-03-03 09:55:45 · answer #8 · answered by CBlackfire 5 · 1⤊ 1⤋
no not really u r most likely curious but if u think about sex and other things with them u might be gay i new a friends who did gay stuff cause he new it felt good but he is 100 percent straight
2007-03-03 10:49:32 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
Did you ever act on this turn-on? if not then I doubt you are. It is very normal to be curious about the same sex as it is about the opposite. It's when you actually do something then that is when you know. You need to move on and not obsess over this. If you find yourself still thinking about it then you need to answer that question yourself.
2007-03-03 09:53:59 · answer #10 · answered by justcurious 4 · 1⤊ 1⤋