If so...how? OR has been peachy for you?
2007-03-03 09:46:10 · 24 answers · asked by Anonymous in Entertainment & Music ➔ Polls & Surveys
My life has had it's downs for sure but in the end Life is what you make of it. I think I've managed to take advantage of what life has given me including the bad things and I've become the person I am because of it.
Right now I'm living away from home, which is kind of scarry but fun at the same time, and I'm studying what I love to do. I feel really blessed that I get to study what I enjoy and even though I'm really homesick I think it's worth it.
2007-03-03 09:55:46 · answer #1 · answered by Rhuby 6 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Yes. I was born in the 60s - my father was a homosexual in hiding because it was unacceptable to society, so he was not happy. My mother was not happy, either. I was verbally, physically and sexually abused. Although my brothers have tall thin bodies, I am average height and overweight. I have made bad decisions in men; but still, when my son's father died instead of turning his life around and beating his addictions, it was another senseless tragedy. Losing my job when I was the best person doing that job was another stab in the heart. Not being able to find another permanent job for over 2 years was like backing the bus up over me after it had already dragged me 30 miles. Meeting the man who is perfect for me on a cellular and spiritual level, but having him also downtrodden by the abuses of others so we couldn't succeed together has nearly destroyed all hope.
But I have learned to count my blessing and find the silver lining in nearly all things. I have my intelligence and education; and have found a job where I am a perfect fit and earn a decent living. Despite my weight, I am healthy. My son is also healthy and intelligent, and for a teenager, he isn't too bad. I believe that my life's experiences have made me stronger and more compassionate as a person. And although I feel that I have had more than my fair share of misfortunes, I know that there are people FAR worse off than I am. Still, it would be nice for some good luck to happen…
2007-03-03 17:48:09 · answer #2 · answered by HearKat 7 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Yes it's been unfair to me. I am starting to think I'm going to be single for the rest of my life. Then I'll end up in a job I am very unhappy with. I know I have so much more to offer than other girls I just don't know why guys don't see it. I know I should be greatful for the family and the friends that I have but it's so hard to focus on the postive and not the negative.
2007-03-03 17:53:19 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Kishimojun is spot on. I like the way she thinks.
I wouldn't say life has been unfair to me. I have been blessed with a brain, a conscience and I'm not that ugly. I've been able to get employment doing things I wanted to do.
People have been unfair, I used to just blow it off, until I realised I could beat them at their own game. And then they have the gall to turn around and say I'm not being fair. Pu-leeeze.
2007-03-03 18:00:31 · answer #4 · answered by Dr Know It All 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If its been unfair to you its only you thats made it that way!! if things for you dont go right you dont have to take it lying down..thats your decision if you feel sorry for yourself ask yourself why,everybody has a bad patch that they have to go through.. but you dont have to go through it alone ..go to the Lord and ask him for help .. no i'm not trying to preach to you although i think it might be a good idea!! i've gone through many bad patches in my life but not without the Lord. Do you know the story of the footsteps in the sand where the man is walking with the Lord on the strand and as they walk the Lord shows him pictures of his life in the sky behind them two sets of footprints are to be seen in the sand when he asks the Lord about the difficult times in his life there are only one set of footprints to be seen!!!on seeing this the man asks the Lord why it is so that when he needed him most he was left alone, on hearing this the Lord then turned to the man and said in those times when you needed me most and see only one set of footprints it is at those times that i carried you//God Bless you dont let things of this life get you down there is a better life to come, just take the lord as your saviour and he will always be there to help you when you really need someone ok
2007-03-03 18:34:07 · answer #5 · answered by Mike S 3 · 0⤊ 1⤋
Life is just peachy.
2007-03-03 17:48:58 · answer #6 · answered by ra63 6 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Yes, crippled father who died when I was young, molested at 13 by a trusted friend of now deceased father. , 10 miscarriages, striken with crippling illness (same as fathers) just after giving birth to my daughter, causing me to have to quit work, almost lost everything, and just this week, my nephew was critically injured by a bomb in Iraq. But, I still try to maintain an upbeat attitude, and try to live with purpose and understanding. I figure I am meant to learn from these unpleasant things, and find solutions for them
2007-03-03 17:53:03 · answer #7 · answered by beebs 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Well that depends on your definition of unfair! But yes life has been unfair to me, but I have learned to accept things in life and let life go on as it will.
2007-03-03 17:51:56 · answer #8 · answered by Tigerluvr 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
i think so a bit but not to much it could have been a hell of a lot nicer but it coulda been a hell of a lot worse as well
and i tend to block out the bad bits so i cant always remember them i blocked out my parents divorce and my mums depression, the depression went on for 10 yrs an i blocked otu almost every part of it i also move a lot and thus find it hard to keep friends and this isnt all i just cant be bothered writing anymore
2007-03-03 17:52:09 · answer #9 · answered by liz m 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
It use to be unfair to me but not anymore. I am doing much better now.
2007-03-03 17:50:06 · answer #10 · answered by Nancy M. 4 · 1⤊ 0⤋