Why are beautiful women lonely?

Question

Ever noticed that some of the most beautiful women can also be the most lonely of all? I am not saying this is the case with everyone! I wonder why this is the case? Of course, maybe a few will have an off-putting personality such as having no manners or are just plain rude, so perhaps that's why these attractive ladies are lonely. But I've also seen many other who are really nice, with good hearts and pleasing manners towards everyone. Plus the ladies I know are also very intelligent and well-read. And yet they are home alone. You would think that they will be asked out all the time but they're not, and sometimes they only have one good girlfriend. Any philosophies, insights, experiences?

P.S. I am a woman myself- not necessarily pretty in my own eyes.

Answer 1

Maybe the reason is exactly what you said, if I see a beautiful woman my first thought is she probly has a boyfriend somewhere. Another common fear, I admit is mine a little is when you see a beautiful woman we think she is probly only interested in a high class exciting tough guy. Or another common one is she is so strikingly beautiful were too nervous to talk to her.

Which is also very strange, because there are tons of good looking guys that are alone; ones that match almost the same criteria that a women explains what she wants. Example good looking, sweet, trust worthy, high maintenance, respectful, and a good job. But it i think a lot of women are tricked into going with the high energetic disrespectful nasty rood stuck ups; i know it is hard to admit. Which is obvious because those guys are the ones that are usually the go getters, meaning if they want you they'll get you or try. Maybe that is a common issue with women they always want the guy to come to them maybe once in a while go to him and let him know.

Example, women always have an interest in shy guys the ones that are quiet but very sweet. But there so convinced that they will wait on him to make the first move, which instead is the energetic one. Pretty women are kinda the same way but with differences

One last comment about what you about yourself, you'd be surprised how common a women who say there not pretty in there eyes the most beautiful women ever to a mans eye; i see a lot. My girl used ti say it all the time, but when she got with me and has been for 6 years i still ask myself how in the hell did i get so lucky to be with beautiful women like this.

Answer 2

Everyone gets lonely and beauty is in the eye of the beholder. That being said I hardly ever see a stunning woman completely alone - however often lonely. I see many find a man and once they are off the marked they are not interesting to men anymore, and other females feel intimidated being friends with someone far more attractive than them so they get isolated easily. I have seen this phenomenon a lot, not "Candise Swanepoel" looking women sitting alone without a boyfriend OR friends.. But maybe thats just me :o) If you are reading this, have a great day !

Answer 3

A couple reasons:
1. Bad Attitude. Society says they should have life handed to them on a platter. Many become self absorbed and have an attitude of entitlement - they think, "I'm a 10, only tall, handsome rich men need approach". This sort of mindset turns people off. Women wouldn't want to hang around someone like this. Only guy who would be interested, would be those looking to use them. When it comes to long term relationships, believe it or not, guys look beyond the physical.
2. Jealousy and Fear. Most girls don't want to hang around pretty girls because of the ever present comparison. "If she's hot, then I'm not!" Lots of guys wont come near because they fear rejection. If the girl isn't very confident and outgoing, the consequence can be loneliness.

Answer 4

Yes!!!

My theory is this ,11years ago I had a work mate who was totally gorgeous,intelligent,funny and flirty excellent you'd think !!

We became good friends at the time but she asked me one day why I never asked her out or showed emotions of fancying her,well although I never admitted it I actually did !!!
But the thought of walking down the street with her and wondering who was checking her out or chatting her up as she was a most outrageous flirt didn't appeal to me too much pressure and paranoia for me to handle at the time so maybe that's one reason why beautiful women are left on the shelf my experience only of course!!

Best wishes

Answer 5

Because men who are a bit insecure will find there beauty to overwhelming and make any excuse not to go talk to them. Ever see a really cute woman with an average looking guy? I think in some instances this happens because the guy had the confidence in himself to ask her out. In a way it can kind of be a curse.

Answer 6

Beautiful women with pleasing personalities may be lonely for many reasons,too high expectations,men do not approach for fear of rejection,men treat her as a trophy and not a person.Happiness does not reside in looks,it resides in the mind spirit and heart.She may be beautiful but loneliness takes its toll on all.

Answer 7

I ask my husband this question...He said most males are afraid to date/marry beautiful women because, they think that they will end up leaving them for someone better or the pretty ones wont even be interested in them in the first place...

Answer 8

now this is a very good question & you have some good insight !

well a lot of the time you can't be too sure if the guy can see past your looks & if they are just using you as some arm candy to show off...that's one reason why it is hard to meet somebody..

another reason...you don't have much female friends !!

sOo you feel lonely.....(well not always)

Answer 9

Not all are lonely, I have two granddaughters who are beautiful and I do mean ' very beautiful,' one is 21 and the other is 23 and they both have many many friends, and both are married !! xx

Answer 10

Love thy self and look no further than the shell,then your playing feild aint got any room for the rest of the team.