Wow, life sure is different when your a thin girl! This summer i lost 35 punds and ever since school started this year ,things have been different. I'm not gonna lie, I like some of the new attention I get. Most of the time I find it flattering and it makes me feel more confident....then this happens. there are these three guys who constantly harass me now. Its been going on for about a week, then last friday one of them grabbed my butt and later one of the other guys purposely bumped into me and felt me up. Should I tell someone? should I try to talk to them? One thing I'm afraid of is them getting other guys to start doing it too. Any feedback would be apprecciated!
P.S Im not trying to sound conceded, its really starting to get to me and sometimes makes it hard to concentrate in class.
2007-03-03 09:27:13 · 9 answers · asked by Stephy B 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Friends
let them noe how u dpnt like wat their doing!! they probably like u! are they even cute??
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2007-03-03 09:32:42 · answer #1 · answered by Marlin 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
IF ANYONE TOUCHES YOU AND YOU DON'T WANT THEM TO, YOU HAVE TO TELL SOMEONE. I remember a policeman giving my kindergarten class this talk. let's say you're in high school, which it sounds like you are, do you want these guys going through their whole lives unpunished for violating you with their hands!? now is the time to report what they did and teach them a lesson or god knows what they might do to you or someone else in the future. this will make an example out of those jack@$$es and hopefully no one else in the school will mess with you.
2007-03-03 09:33:05 · answer #2 · answered by Danielle 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
first of all congrats on the weight loss... if u dont mind.. what was ur motivation and secret to of lost 35lbs.. I have a teenager that needs to lose also... as for ur problem with them boys I will point blank tell them IF YOU dont stop... I will tell a teacher thats sexual harrassment... they will get in school suspension or suspended for a few days...I wouldnt allow that to happen for long because if they know ur not going to tell they will continue thinking u like it...
2007-03-03 09:45:31 · answer #3 · answered by gina B 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
i hav 2 admit i like the attention to so dont feel bad about that its not a big deal,but u should not let anyone thouch u if u dont want them to.Just let them know that u dont like them touching u and if that dosent work..tell a trustworthy teacher who u know wont blow up ur spot and make u look like a snitch just so that when u box them in he face u will have a aliby.but make sure ur not alone(there are some weirdos out there)
GOOD LUCK!
2007-03-03 09:40:59 · answer #4 · answered by Baby Mexicana 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I really think that you need o get a parent or school counselor, some sort of adult involved. If these boys are touching you in ways that you don't like, someone has to know about it.
2007-03-03 09:35:16 · answer #5 · answered by f.o.b<3(: 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You should really tell a school conselor, teacher, parent, friend, or anybody else you trust. This is sexual harassment, you need to stop it before it gets too far.
2007-03-03 09:35:16 · answer #6 · answered by stephygirl4ever 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If they do it again, tell them don't do that again. and now you have to mean it, You just be cool and concentrate on school, they will eventually see that you are not like that, and that you are cool. So keep acting like a lady, and they will treat you like one. If they are still doing it, tell your guidance counselor!
2007-03-03 09:37:14 · answer #7 · answered by roseannetb@verizon.net 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
tell someone.. their behavior is innappropriate.. it shouldnt be kept hush hush because if it is then they'll keep on doing the same thing... you dont deserve to be treated that way..
2007-03-03 09:32:59 · answer #8 · answered by LION 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
kick them in the nuts
2007-03-03 10:45:56 · answer #9 · answered by Preston 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋